This is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40. I know that you are a fabulous, smart accomplished woman who has created a good life for yourself. You are probably here, though, because there is a missing piece. It’s likely that you’re still […]
When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow? Does anything like this pop into your brain? A lot of women — especially women who are dating over 40 — believe that men are far […]
This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.” (If you haven’t yet read it, hop on over there now. It’s a must!) In the article, “LM” described his […]
You’ve probably asked at some point: Where are the good single men? I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. The answer is they are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over the age of 35 in the United States. About 8 million are over 65. There are about 7 million single […]
How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of communication. The truth is that I want him to be more chatty, able to traverse multiple topics at once and […]
If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health problem…these are just some of the common products of a rich and varied, well-lived life. As The Dating and Relationship […]
Want to hear how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the walls that were chasing men away? Or how the women’s movement made it harder for us to make connections with […]
Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about the whats and hows of having sex “in this day and age” and at this stage of life. I get […]
A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting. When a man meets this kind of woman he may be attracted initially, but after figuring out that she is […]
You can meet the spectacular, special man who is going to be your life partner using online dating. I met the love of my life on www.match.com, so of course I recommend it to all my friends, coaching clients, in my workshops…really to anyone who will listen! Here are three things I recommend you keep […]
