Dating after 40 and Beyond

Over 40 Dating Tip: It’s Really Not about the Size of Your Thighs, Part II

It’s Really Not About the Size of Your Thighs: (Read It’s Really Not About the Size of Your Thighs, Part 1 Here) – – – – – – – – – – – – –… Read more

Over 40 Dating Tip: It’s Really Not about the Size of Your Thighs, Part I

When I used to meet men, my first mission was to make it clear to them that I had a very full life and was doing just fine on my own. I thought it was… Read more

How to Have More Fun on Dates and Avoid Fights with the Men You Love

The other day I avoided having a “very serious discussion” with my husband. He kinda pissed me off. But I have learned a skill that, when used, essentially prevents any and all disagreement and unhappiness… Read more

Dating and Looking for a Nice Man? Why You Should Run from Men Who Chase

It’s true that, when it comes to dating and romance, some men love the chase. They pursue and romance, and they say “all the right things.” And when you play hard-to-get, you’re likely to attract… Read more

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How We Spoil Perfectly Lovely Dates with Perfectly Lovely Men

Have you ever wondered about how many times you let a potentially good man get away after going out with him only once, maybe twice? If you haven’t wondered about this; you should. I’ve been… Read more

Date Like a Grownup

Six Reasons You Should be Making Small Talk on Dates

When you’re dating, especially if you’re over 40, you probably want to know as much as possible as fast as possible. Why waste your time, right? Especially those of us who are “of a certain… Read more

Being Rejected By a Man Really Doesn’t Hurt as Much as You Think

Remember when you were a child and the doctor gave you a shot…and you screamed your bloody head off?! Now seriously…did it really hurt that much? Of course not. Fast forward 30, 40, or 50… Read more

How Chatting with Your Gorgeous Self Can Make You Happy

Larry left his wedding ring on his bedside table again this morning. I hate when he does that. So, as I always do, I put it on my thumb and walked around with it on… Read more

Have You Passed Up Your Hot Man?

I know we all love George Clooney; who doesn’t? But what other celebrity men float your boat? I sometimes ask that question when I start helping a new fabulous woman learn how to better enjoy… Read more

Love After 40: Are You Afraid to Fall in Love and Need Him?

Every day I talk to women who are frustrated and saddened by not having intimate love in their lives. They want it, but are actually afraid to fall in love. My clients and most of… Read more