Dating after 40 and Beyond

Why You Might Want to Stop Looking for a Man

I know you say you’re looking for a loving and committed man to share your life, but I have to ask…have you found yourself yet? I know you’ve heard this before and it sounds trite,… Read more

Horrible Dates in the Holiday Season: Here’s Why

I’ve had several clients tell me recently that they feel like they’re “stalling out” when it comes to dating and relationships. They are hearing a lot of “I’ll call you” and never getting a call. … Read more

What Men Say About Women (It May Surprise You!)

What if you could hear men honestly share their thoughts and feelings about women, dating, sex and relationships? I had the opportunity to do that twice last week when I hosted and observed “man panels.”… Read more

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… Read more

Why Some Men Talk Too Much on Dates

As a dating coach for women over 40, I often hear stories about men talking their heads off on dates as the women sit quietly nodding and “uh-hu-ing.” (Notice I didn’t say listening.) Inevitably, these… Read more

Bobbi and Larry Palmer, Date Like a Grownup

Happy Anniversary to ME! (A personal note to you)

This week we are celebrating our fifth wedding anniversary. These years have gone by in a flash, and they have, hands down, been the happiest years of my life. Not only have I never felt… Read more

How to Talk to Men

Not only is it okay to talk about yourself to men, but it is 100% essential to getting first dates and future dates. When I tell women that it’s GOOD to talk about themselves, it’s… Read more

How to Fall in Love…with Yourself

Let’s admit it: it can suck being single. Not because you yearn to go out to dinner on Saturday nights or because you want someone to send you flowers, but because you want to be… Read more

powerful feminine woman

How to Be a Powerful Feminine Woman

Want to attract a confident, grounded man who will enhance your already great life? The best way to do it is to act like a lady. Yes, that age-old scenario is still true: masculine men… Read more

Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him?

I learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside. Did you know that? I’m 52 years old, and… Read more