I’m just coming from an interview where I talked about quick judgments and what a real waste of a potentially great guy that can be. It’s time to realize you’re carrying some expectations and judgments around that are keeping you from getting to know some great men – each one a potential grownup love story! Every man has a story of his own, a path that led him to where he is in life at the point you meet him, and that story is worth hearing before you make a decision on whether or not he fits your ideal.
In the video below I share a prime example of a woman who almost walked away from a really great guy because of one little piece of information that ultimately made perfect sense once she had the whole story.
What’s my point? Instead of judging a man on initial perceptions and small pieces of information – ask for his story – things are always more complicated than they appear at first glance. Do yourself the favor of truly learning about a man before you decide if he’s worth your attention, and intention.
Thank you, thank you for this video! The example was perfect, but the explanation was spot-on. I just went on my 1st date with someone last weekend who I thought was going to be an awesome person. We hit it off immediately through, chat, text, and phone conversations. After the first date…*poof*…no explanation, no reason, no warning. We even had plans to meet the next weekend. So, now I have a low opinion of my date (immature and cowardly). They left before they even took ANY time to get to know me! People…unless something freaky happens, don’t blow people off on the first date! You might be tossing away a diamond while you’re busy sifting through stones. Their loss! Karma will come, and it won’t be pretty!