When you’re dating, especially if you’re over 40, you probably want to know as much as possible as fast as possible. Why waste your time, right? Especially those of us who are “of a certain… Read more

I believe this statement is generally true: Women can twist themselves like a pretzel to please a man and persuade him to adore her. My friend Pegi reminded me of this the other day. While… Read more

H-E-L-L-O! Are you still with me? I know this is a bit instructional and maybe not all that fun. But trust me: This exercise is an absolute must! You have to be clear on the… Read more

Before you can recognize your Mr. I Love You — the man who is good for you and makes you feel the way you want and deserve to feel — you have to be in… Read more

In the past week I’ve talked to three fabulous women about how the men they’re meeting lack the qualities they want in a mate. Turns out none of them have ever devoted time to getting… Read more

This week seems to be the week of cynicism. Is the moon in some funky position or something? I’ve talked with so many of you who have expressed the feeling of sadness and defeat around… Read more

I had to share this story. It’s absolutely true. It’s about a courageous grown-up woman who confessed her secret wish, did a little work, and then had her wish come true. My client Pamela is… Read more

It’s pathetic that at 60+ I can still find myself acting like a wounded little high school girl. Thankfully, that foolishness doesn’t come up too often these days. I don’t get all freaked out about… Read more

Dating over 40 :: Understanding the dating difference between ‘girl’ and ‘grownup’ My friend Jen told me the other day about how she ran into her high school boyfriend while back home from visiting her… Read more