I’m going on vacation and haven’t packed a thing. So I’m re-posting this popular article about keeping an open mind and being realistic when you date. If I didn’t follow this advice five years ago,… Read more

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

Ever found yourself wondering “Is he into me?” or “Should I move on?” Check out this email exchange I recently shared with a blog reader. Dear Bobbi, Thank you.  Your dating tips are helpful and… Read more

Maybe you used to be a great flirt, but how do you flirt with a man now? No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and… Read more

Do you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t care what you want and need? I’m going to assume the answer is “no.” So I have to ask: Why would you… Read more

You know how I constantly tell you that you don’t have to dig deep into a man’s soul or obtain a full biography upon first meeting? There are a lot of things you can learn… Read more

Continuing from a previous article, it’s important to make yourself memorable when you are dating. There are tons of women out there; you want to be the one he wants to know. When you follow… Read more

I can answer this in three words: You’re not memorable. That’s it. Whether it’s the hot man you had a nice chat with at the local coffee shop or the guy you had a great… Read more

YOU are in control of your choices and experiences as you date. Believing you have this control, and feeling the empowerment of that belief is essential to being able to fully participate and enjoy dating… Read more