Communication

What to Say to a Man You Want to Know (Even If He’s Hot)

Once again I’m addressing the basic question: Where do I meet single men? But it’s actually a little more. What if a good lookin’ single guy is standing in front of you? Then what do… Read more

Should You Go On a Second Date with Him?

I read this quote recently: I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That is special.  ~ Jennifer Aniston I love her, and… Read more

What Single Men Over 40 Think and Feel

Do you ever wish that you could eavesdrop on men talking about dating, love, sex and relationships? Well…you are about to. As part of my Man Panel during my telecourse “The Secret to Meeting Men… Read more

5 Top Online Dating Tips for Women over 40

You can meet the spectacular man who is going to be your life partner using online dating, or you can waste a ton of time and energy trying. It took me years of being online… Read more

Key #5 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Real Women Find Their Man

This is the fifth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Key #4 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Time to Get Out and Trail Blaze

This is the fourth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes and Mature Dating- The Epilogue)

Over the past few months I’ve profiled six types of women – I call them FemiTypes – who have less than healthy relationships with men. I’ve written about The Princess, The 18 year old, The… Read more

Can You Find a Balance Between Being Picky and Being a Pushover?

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

A Quality Man

How to Avoid Loving a Jerk

Today’s post is an article written by my friend, colleague and mentor Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. Tina and I met a few years ago after I cited one of her articles in a blog post. I… Read more

Why Hasn’t He Called? I’m Going Crazy!

Of all the questions asked of me as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40, this is one of the most common: “Why hasn’t he called? I’m going crazy! What do I do?” (The… Read more