Communication

Why Are Men Intimidated By Me?

I’ve been told that I’m intimidating. That’s what my new client, Liz, told me today. She says that several men have said that she’s intimidating and “too much for them.” I heard many versions of… Read more

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating?

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating? I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating… Read more

Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work

As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to… Read more

Do You Actually Know When You’re Being Rejected?

Rejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a… Read more

The Truth about Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours

If you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we… Read more

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How Do You Know If He’s The One? The #1 Tip.

How do you know if he’s The One? Listen to Albert Einstein who once said: “Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” Al was… Read more

Do You Have Cancer?

Did I scare you? Good. Want to stop reading? Don’t. I was going to post something today that had great dating advice about not trying to change men. I’ve been pretty serious lately, so I… Read more

Dating Commandment #4: Kindness… With Men

Today’s post is the last, but maybe the most important, in my series on Kindness…With Men. It’s about being kind to yourself by allowing for mistakes and some icky feelings…and being patient with yourself as… Read more

Dating Commandment #3: Kindness… With Men

Today’s post is an excerpt from page 20 of my eBook. It’s about not using your computer as a shield or a weapon while dating online. Kindness…With Men:  Dating Commandment #3 Online dating is still… Read more

Dating Commandment #2: Kindness… With Men

Today’s excerpt is from page 17 of my eBook. It’s about empathy, which means extending the kindness of being able and willing to put yourself in a man’s shoes when you date. Kindness…With Men: Dating… Read more