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Why Men Disappear After a Few Great Texts, Calls, or Dates

So many women want to know why men disappear. You know the story: He texts or calls and you have a great conversation. He asks you out, once, twice even three times…you think it’s going… Read more

4 Ways to Get His Attention Online or Out and About

No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as… Read more

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Should You Take Dating Advice from Friends?

Do you take dating advice from friends? It often goes like this: You’ve met a new guy that you really like. You’ve gone on a second date and you’re pretty excited about him. You call… Read more

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[Video] How Do I Get Myself to Think Nice Guys Are Hot?

Last weekend was my live event in Los Angeles: Mastering the Art of Magnetizing Men. During this two-day event I gave women tons of advice and step-by-step tips to help them attract quality men so… Read more

How to Grab His Attention Without Saying a Word!

For years I’ve told you that the most powerful way to attract a man without saying a word is with your smile and your eyes. An open welcoming smile and brief lingering eye contact are… Read more

What is Your Online Dating IQ?

I know I sound like a broken record about the benefits of dating online, especially if you are single and over 40. I’m going to continue to nag you about this because I want what… Read more

Should You Go On a Second Date with Him?

I read this quote recently: I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That is special.  ~ Jennifer Aniston I love her, and… Read more

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2 Simple Things You Can Do to Keep Him

If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who thinks men don’t want to date you because of it, think again. While it’s true that some men prefer less “challenging” women, the guy you’re looking for –… Read more

Two Simple Thoughts That Will Change the Way You Date

My guess is that you’ve been dating a while and not getting great results. You’re here reading this, after all. The best way to shift into having dates that render positive outcomes – like having… Read more

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Nine Ways to Make Your Date Great

The first 10 minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is even going to happen. And let’s face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story… Read more