Starting Over Single

Why After 40 is the Best Time to be Dating and Finding Love

I’ve been on vacation for the week with my darling husband. (Isn’t he cute?)  Here we are relaxed, a little tan and enjoying lunch by the pool. (They have the best chicken nachos…we’ve had them… Read more

Are You Blocking Your View of a Beautiful Future?

“If it were a snake, it would ‘a bit ya!” That’s what Ethel Mertz always said to her husband Fred (Lucy Ricardo’s neighbors in I Love Lucy) when he’d wander around looking for his glasses… Read more

Are You Dating Like a Grownup?

I’m often asked what I mean by Dating Like a Grownup. It’s obviously a great question that I probably should answer every so often. (I am, after all, the CEO of Date Like a Grownup!)… Read more

Why Every Single Woman Over 40 Should Use a Vibrator

Masturbation. There…I said it. The “Big M.” And the most efficient way to get the job done is to use a vibrator. I don’t generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the… Read more

Dating after 50 wedding

Make Your List, But Consider It Twice (Or Thrice!)

Can you use a dating pick-me-up? Something to boost your hope of finding your fabulous life partner? If you’re wondering if dating and the nonsense that sometimes comes with it is worth it, read on.… Read more

Bobbi and Lindsay confidence

How to Be a Confident Woman: Realize You Are Enough

Want to be a more confident woman when it comes to dating and men? Here is something you must know: Your fear of being rejected is exactly what is getting you rejected. ~ Bobbi Palmer Last week… Read more

handling online rejection

3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:… Read more

Bobbi Palmer

My Very Personal Message to You

This is the content of my newsletter I sent to my subscribers this week. It’s a celebration and a Thank You to all of you women who love so deeply and nourish my soul. I’m… Read more