Dating after 40 and Beyond

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Should You Take Dating Advice from Friends?

Do you take dating advice from friends? It often goes like this: You’ve met a new guy that you really like. You’ve gone on a second date and you’re pretty excited about him. You call… Read more

One Surprising Way Men Help Us While Hurting Us

It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn’t real; how there’s no such thing as… Read more

[Video] What To Do When a Relationship Doesn’t Work Out

I had a disappointment today. I blew an opportunity to do well at something that was super important to me. I was struggling to find a way to fix it…to make it right. So I… Read more

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How Do I Tell Him I Have Herpes? [Video]

If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something that you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. How do I tell him I have herpes is one… Read more

A Quality Man

[Video] How Do I Get Myself to Think Nice Guys Are Hot?

Last weekend was my live event in Los Angeles: Mastering the Art of Magnetizing Men. During this two-day event I gave women tons of advice and step-by-step tips to help them attract quality men so… Read more

How to Grab His Attention Without Saying a Word!

For years I’ve told you that the most powerful way to attract a man without saying a word is with your smile and your eyes. An open welcoming smile and brief lingering eye contact are… Read more

Love Rocks – Why Try to Deny It?

Here I am, no makeup and no B.S. I’m telling it to you straight: We are all trying to love and be loved. It’s human. It’s natural. It’s beautiful. So let me ask you: Are… Read more

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How Do I Decide When to Have Sex?

Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about… Read more

Hey Mothers: You Rock

As one who is not a Mother, nor was mothered well herself, to me being a good Mother is BY FAR the hardest and most important thing a woman can do in this life. Happy… Read more

Single Over 40? Can You Embrace Your Real Power?

Yesterday was my granddaughter’s 13th birthday. She doesn’t live near us and it literally makes me cry that I can’t be there and be a bigger part of her life. She’s very special:  super smart,… Read more