Dating after 40 and Beyond

Tips for a Happier YOU!

I’m actually in Oakland Hills, CA, (not my usual Long Beach) where I’m hosting a two-day retreat for the graduates of my Love Program. I have to say that I love my Love Program. For… Read more

Dateless During the Holidays: Tis the Season for Breakups and Bad Dates

Okay, let’s say it like it is: Being dateless for the holidays can suck. It can be a really funky time for single gals. At the same time your angst over being dateless for New Years’ Eve… Read more

Want to become a better dater and (man) lover? Learn what over-40 men face when dating. Surprise!!

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)

I love men. I’m often asked whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men dating after 40. I don’t. But I DO help men by helping women who are dating after 40. (It really… Read more

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… Read more

What You Should Know About Texting and Dating…for Grownups

Over the past few years it seems that almost every dating dilemma I hear from my coaching clients and girlfriends has something to do with texting. Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year olds… Read more

What Looking for Love and Giving Birth Have in Common

There are so many women I care deeply about —both friends and clients — who are holding themselves back from bringing love into their life. Are you one of them? Are you saying “I want a fabulous… Read more

What Turns Men On About Moms, Caretakers and Workaholics

Do you feel stuck in some definition of yourself that you think renders you undatable or uninteresting to men? I received a comment in response to my blog post Just Be Yourself And You Will Easily Attract The Right Man that was… Read more

Why He Won’t Commit or Stop Being a Jerk (And What to Do About It)

Have you found yourself in (what you think is) a relationship, only to realize that he won’t commit? Here’s how to understand it, and let it go…with your heart and self-esteem intact…as you’re walking out… Read more

What Your Mother’s Voice Has to Do With Whether You Fall in Love

The definition of Mother [verb]: To bring up (a child) with care and affection. To look after kindly and protectively… I hope you shared a ton of love with your mom on Mother’s Day. Or, if she’s… Read more

Key #3 to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40: Shed Your Stuff

This is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40. I know that you are a fabulous, smart accomplished woman who has created a… Read more