Being Your Best

Woman with fear of dating and tired of being single over 40

A Simple Truth That Will Free You From Fears About Dating

What are your fears about dating and looking for your mate? I had tons of things I was afraid of when I was dating. Mostly, I dreaded rejection with what felt like primal fear. With… Read more

10 Style Secrets of Sexy Women Over 40

Do you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your… Read more

Why Is Dating Scary? You’ve Slain Way Worse Dragons.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, I’m thinking of those of you who are hoping for love to come into your life. This was always the time of year that my “screw this; I give up” voice… Read more

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How We Spoil Perfectly Lovely Dates with Perfectly Lovely Men

Have you ever wondered about how many times you let a potentially good man get away after going out with him only once, maybe twice? If you haven’t wondered about this; you should. I’ve been… Read more

Looking for a Relationship: Stop Being So Damn Scared of Your Fabulous Self

I believe this statement is generally true: Women can twist themselves like a pretzel to please a man and persuade him to adore her. My friend Pegi reminded me of this the other day. While… Read more

Why Worrying “Is He Into Me” is a Guarantee That He Won’t Be

It’s pathetic that at 60+ I can still find myself acting like a wounded little high school girl. Thankfully, that foolishness doesn’t come up too often these days. I don’t get all freaked out about… Read more

Dating over 40 :: Do You Credit Yourself For Your Successful Life?

Dating over 40 :: Stepping Forward with Confidence In my last post I talked about how, as adult women, we can turn back to bad experiences and old beliefs about ourselves, and then we project… Read more