Being Your Best

Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him?

I learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside. Did you know that? I’m 52 years old, and… Read more

Why Every Single Woman Over 40 Should Use a Vibrator

Masturbation. There…I said it. The “Big M.” And the most efficient way to get the job done is to use a vibrator. I don’t generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the… Read more

30 Things You Can Do This Weekend (With or Without a Man)

Happy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day? In 1868, May 30th was designated as a holiday to honor the nation’s Civil War casualties. Now called Memorial Day, it was… Read more

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Setting Dating and Relationship Boundaries and Rules

Are you out there dating and simply taking things as they come? Or are you setting some dating and relationship boundaries and rules so you can take care of yourself and have as much control… Read more

3 Ways to Prepare for a Great Date

Before we get to our blog post, can I brag to you for a minute? I did two things in the last two weeks that I’m really proud of: 1) I started exercising, and 2)… Read more

Dating over 40: This is Why He’s Not Asking You Out

Continuing from a previous article, it’s important to make yourself memorable when you are dating. There are tons of women out there; you want to be the one he wants to know. When you follow… Read more

Why You’re Still Single

One of my clients recently said, “I don’t think there’s something wrong with me; I just think I’m doing something wrong.” Bingo. The majority of women who come to me for help with dating and… Read more

Put Yourself First When Looking for Love

Do you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for… Read more

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15 MORE Ways to Get a Second Date

Ever wonder why your first date goes great and yet he doesn’t call? Where are those damn second date invitations? Men can be far more in the moment than women are; especially when dating. He… Read more

Bobbi and Lindsay confidence

How to Be a Confident Woman: Realize You Are Enough

Want to be a more confident woman when it comes to dating and men? Here is something you must know: Your fear of being rejected is exactly what is getting you rejected. ~ Bobbi Palmer Last week… Read more