Understanding Men

What Single Men Over 40 Think and Feel

Do you ever wish that you could eavesdrop on men talking about dating, love, sex and relationships? Well…you are about to. As part of my Man Panel during my telecourse “The Secret to Meeting Men… Read more

Key #6 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Should You Stay or Should You Go?

This is the sixth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Key #4 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Time to Get Out and Trail Blaze

This is the fourth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Key #2 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Assess Your List

This is the second in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Are You Blocking Your View of a Beautiful Future?

“If it were a snake, it would ‘a bit ya!” That’s what Ethel Mertz always said to her husband Fred (Lucy Ricardo’s neighbors in I Love Lucy) when he’d wander around looking for his glasses… Read more

Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes and Mature Dating- The Epilogue)

Over the past few months I’ve profiled six types of women – I call them FemiTypes – who have less than healthy relationships with men. I’ve written about The Princess, The 18 year old, The… Read more

Can You Find a Balance Between Being Picky and Being a Pushover?

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

A Quality Man

How to Avoid Loving a Jerk

Today’s post is an article written by my friend, colleague and mentor Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. Tina and I met a few years ago after I cited one of her articles in a blog post. I… Read more

Why Hasn’t He Called? I’m Going Crazy!

Of all the questions asked of me as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40, this is one of the most common: “Why hasn’t he called? I’m going crazy! What do I do?” (The… Read more

men worry

4 Things Single Men Over 40 Worry About

To continue in honor of Men’s Health Week, here is an article written by my friend and colleague, Marcus Osborne. Marcus is a smart, handsome, 40-something single guy whose mission in life is to help… Read more