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Where to Meet Single Men Over 40 (A Man’s Advice)

We LOVE men, don’t we? Well, there’s some interesting data that points to married men being healthier than their single counterparts… And I can’t think of a better way to help them stay healthy than… Read more

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Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More Like a Man

Dating burnout is your worst enemy if you are looking for love. This week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out… Read more

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How to Get More Online Dates

Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. Before I met my spectacular husband on Match.com, I was online on and off… Read more

Why You Should Open Yourself Up to Love Over 40

I’m at a fabulous conference in Miami on online dating and then off to visit my dad for a couple days. Here is a repost of one of my popular articles that also happens to… Read more

My Top Tip for Improving Your Relationships and Dates

I’m on a well-deserved vacation with my spectacular man, as you can see from the photo. Need I say more? Here is a repost of one of my popular articles. Be back next week!  … Read more

Horrible Dates in the Holiday Season: Here’s Why

I’ve had several clients tell me recently that they feel like they’re “stalling out” when it comes to dating and relationships. They are hearing a lot of “I’ll call you” and never getting a call. … Read more

What Men Say About Women (It May Surprise You!)

What if you could hear men honestly share their thoughts and feelings about women, dating, sex and relationships? I had the opportunity to do that twice last week when I hosted and observed “man panels.”… Read more

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… Read more

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Good Communication is Key When Dating Over 40

Men and women are more alike than we tend to think. We all want to be loved, to be understood and to feel safe in our most precious relationships. There are, though, some clear differences… Read more

Four Reasons Why You May Be Chronically Single

If you are a woman over 40, single and looking for love, I think I know your story. It goes something like this: You’ve been single longer than planned. The men you meet – when… Read more