Dating after 40 and Beyond

Key #5 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Real Women Find Their Man

This is the fifth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

3 Simple Steps to Your Goal of Falling in Love

I write all the time about how happy I am to share my life with my amazing husband. In fact, my Dad’s been very very sick, and every day I feel the full impact of… Read more

Key #4 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Time to Get Out and Trail Blaze

This is the fourth in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Key #2 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Assess Your List

This is the second in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Key #1 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Me First

This is the first in a series of articles sharing my 6 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 6 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S… Read more

Are You Blocking Your View of a Beautiful Future?

“If it were a snake, it would ‘a bit ya!” That’s what Ethel Mertz always said to her husband Fred (Lucy Ricardo’s neighbors in I Love Lucy) when he’d wander around looking for his glasses… Read more

Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes and Mature Dating- The Epilogue)

Over the past few months I’ve profiled six types of women – I call them FemiTypes – who have less than healthy relationships with men. I’ve written about The Princess, The 18 year old, The… Read more

Can You Find a Balance Between Being Picky and Being a Pushover?

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

A Quality Man

How to Avoid Loving a Jerk

Today’s post is an article written by my friend, colleague and mentor Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. Tina and I met a few years ago after I cited one of her articles in a blog post. I… Read more

Why Hasn’t He Called? I’m Going Crazy!

Of all the questions asked of me as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40, this is one of the most common: “Why hasn’t he called? I’m going crazy! What do I do?” (The… Read more