Are you perfect? Do you know anyone who is? Look at the people you know who are in midlife or older: do you know anyone who doesn’t have some rough times behind her or is… Read more

Happy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day? In 1868, May 30th was designated as a holiday to honor the nation’s Civil War casualties. Now called Memorial Day, it was… Read more

I hate being like everyone else, but I have to make an exception for Oprah. Everyone is talking about her, and rightly so. May 25 is her final show. Oprah will no longer be visiting… Read more

I’m going on vacation and haven’t packed a thing. So I’m re-posting this popular article about keeping an open mind and being realistic when you date. If I didn’t follow this advice five years ago,… Read more

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

Ever found yourself wondering “Is he into me?” or “Should I move on?” Check out this email exchange I recently shared with a blog reader. Dear Bobbi, Thank you.  Your dating tips are helpful and… Read more

Are you out there dating and simply taking things as they come? Or are you setting some dating and relationship boundaries and rules so you can take care of yourself and have as much control… Read more

Do you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and… Read more

When you think of dating – especially online dating – do you feel any fear? Do you get even a tiny twinge of terror? If your answer is “yes,” you are not alone. In fact,… Read more