Chemistry

Don’t Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the… Read more

Sex after 40… You Bet it Can it Be Hot

Ladies, are you looking for love and can’t wait to hop into bed with your new guy? Think of it: slowly undressing…. eyes locked…. savoring each other’s bodies… lust so intense that you both might… Read more

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… Read more

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26 Ways to Meet Single Men Over 40

How do you meet single men over 40?  It’s Friday…another Friday to remind you that your weekend isn’t full of romance…or maybe not even full of fun. Here is a list of 26 things you… Read more

Four Reasons Why You May Be Chronically Single

If you are a woman over 40, single and looking for love, I think I know your story. It goes something like this: You’ve been single longer than planned. The men you meet – when… Read more

Why Online Dating Is Not for You

Last week I hosted a workshop called Get Online, Get Noticed, Get Dates, Exclusively for Women over 40. I had a fantastic time with these smart and lovely women who really want to meet their… Read more

Why We Pick the Wrong Men When Dating

I’m going on vacation and haven’t packed a thing. So I’m re-posting this popular article about keeping an open mind and being realistic when you date. If I didn’t follow this advice five years ago,… Read more

How to Enjoy Small(er) Talk on Dates

When you’re dating, do you want to know as much as possible about a man, as quickly as possible? Especially for those of us “of a certain age;” life is too damn short to be… Read more

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating?

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating? I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating… Read more

Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work

As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to… Read more