Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the hiatuses were often pretty long. (Sorry…TMI?) The truth is that extended periods of celibacy are somewhat common for single women […]
Ladies, are you looking for love and can’t wait to hop into bed with your new guy? Think of it: slowly undressing…. eyes locked…. savoring each other’s bodies… lust so intense that you both might explode…. does the thought of this turn you on or does it strike fear in your heart? As women we […]
The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex with him? How do I decide I’m ready? This is such an important conversation. You may think “I’m not even dating […]
How do you meet single men over 40? It’s Friday…another Friday to remind you that your weekend isn’t full of romance…or maybe not even full of fun. Here is a list of 26 things you can do to blow open your possibilities go you can start to . It’s not just about where to meet […]
If you are a woman over 40, single and looking for love, I think I know your story. It goes something like this: You’ve been single longer than planned. The men you meet – when you actually get to meet someone – are boring, oafs or just plain wrong. You never feel that spark, and […]
Last week I hosted a workshop called Get Online, Get Noticed, Get Dates, Exclusively for Women over 40. I had a fantastic time with these smart and lovely women who really want to meet their mate. It was a total blast, and they all left excited and feeling like they had the confidence and tools […]
I’m going on vacation and haven’t packed a thing. So I’m re-posting this popular article about keeping an open mind and being realistic when you date. If I didn’t follow this advice five years ago, I’d be where you are: reading someone else’s blog to learn how to find a good guy. Happy reading. Let […]
When you’re dating, do you want to know as much as possible about a man, as quickly as possible? Especially for those of us “of a certain age;” life is too damn short to be dilly dallying around. Either the guy is for you, or he’s not. And with the right information, you (think you) […]
When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating? I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating for some time. They also want to know how they can tell if sex is all he wants. Good questions. […]
As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to figure out how to actually connect with another human being amidst the volume and the anonymity. Being a successful online […]
