Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp Purchase – Full version

Finding the right man and falling in love has to start with dating.

You Are Finally Going to Know How To Date In A Way That Leads You To Love


See this wall?
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I call this the WALL OF I DARE YOU.

In the next few minutes I’m going to show you what I shared with women like you when I was invited as a guest expert on The Today Show:

How scaling this wall and kicking its butt is your key to bringing love – and a lot more fun – into your life.


Watch this Today Show video to get just a snippet of how I helped six accomplished, together, beautiful single women like you start dating like grownups.

(This video is from NBC and starts with a commercial, so just hang in a few seconds for the juicy stuff to start.)

(By the way, there is a lot of information here because I want to be sure you can make a well-informed decision about joining me for Bootcamp. If you already know you’re IN, simply click here.)

Hoda Kotb (who is a wonderful woman, btw) asked a question in this interview, and I’m wondering how you would answer:

Raise your hand if you enjoy dating!

Either way, it’s good you’re here reading this.

What? Not raising your hand? Or maybe you have one hand up and one down like Susan in the video did?

Dating can feel like a tedious job with no happy ending in sight, right?

This is especially true when you’re dating just so you can finally have a warm body next to you at night.

It’s like a bunch of frustrating “NO’s”:
[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]Maybe YOU are the one saying no! The men you’re meeting are…let’s just say…not for you. Date after date you’re disappointed and sometimes even pissed off…like why bother if there are no good single men![/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]Or maybe you’re the one being told NO. You meet men you like and you’re open to seeing them again, but they’re disappearing. That call for a second or third date isn’t coming.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]Or maybe you’re living the ultimate NO: No dating at all! You were dating in the past and meeting some men…but it was an exhausting or a boring bummer. So you’re on break..

But, damnit, you know you have to date if you want a man in your life. You can’t just twitch your nose like Samantha and have your Darren appear.[/su_icon_text]

Well…I have a solution.

I’m going to give you a fresh way to look at men and when your light bulb goes on (and it will) you’re going to be stunned at how many good men you see who have been hiding in plain sight.

I’m talking about men who would make a great grownup partner AND who you would want to kiss.
No more “There are no good men” mantra for you, sister. This new truth will set you free…and get you hooked up.

First date hell will be a thing of the past. You’re going to go out feeling relaxed and confident, with powerful tools in your dating tool belt. That means you will show up as your very best self, and THAT WOMAN easily attracts men who makes her feel special and adored…and who calls again and again!

Every single date will be one more positive, enjoyable step closer to your ultimate goal…a lifetime of love. Breaks won’t be necessary. Besides, you’re not getting any younger…why would you take a break anyway?

You will date in a way that’s fun and interesting, gets you what you need AND leads you to that one man who will light you up, have your back and contribute to your life.

If you’ve gotten all the information you need and know Bootcamp is what you need to start dating as a way to find love, cut to the chase and reserve your spot! Click HERE and be first in line!)


Dating like a grownup leads directly to love, Getting there doesnt have to feel pointless or be frustrating…and there’s proof of that all around you.

Larry and Me at Santa Monica Pier when we were dating…and falling in love.

Susan, who you saw on the Today Show video, was the Queen of the “There Are No Good Single Men” club. (Oh! Are YOU a member too? I was for a lot of years.)

She said that the men she was meeting were uninteresting, geographically undesirable, unrefined, un-fun…not worth a second look. (Sound familiar?)

After her divorce, Susan repeated that cycle of dating like crazy, wearing herself out and quitting. And then she would start feeling lonely and want to have more fun so she would start the cycle all over again. Over the years she had met a lot of men. But none who she could imagine spending her life with.

What you didn’t see on the short video was Susan’s “ah-ha” moments during the 3-hour Today Show bootcamp.

With the new information and her shifted perspective about men, Susan went back to her online dating messages and realized a lot of the guys she was relegating to her trash folder actually had great partner potential.

“N” was one of the men languishing there. Susan contacted him, and they met for coffee that day. The next week – only two weeks after bootcamp, Susan was on that gondola ride and enjoying a picnic in Central Park with this fabulous man. Last I talked to her they were on their fifth date.

At bootcamp, Susan recognized her Wall of I Dare You and learned how see around it. A simple shift in perspective literally changed her life.

Susan’s opportunity for love is now a reality. No more exhaustion. Just excitement for her future.



Speaking of Queens, Wendy, one of my coaching clients, was the Queen of First Dates. (Not a crown she wore proudly.)

Wendy was smart, beautiful and successful. She didn’t have much trouble getting dates. But while men seemed to really enjoy her on the first or second date, apparently they had trouble seeing her as a woman they wanted to come home to.

Her life was filled with a lot of first dates. The phone rarely rang. Very rarely.

Wendy was a pretty powerful woman and she wanted men to know that. She liked who she was, and had no intention of changing for a man. She figured that she may be tough on the outside, but a man worth his salt would see through it. (Yah…are you honing in on her Wall of I Dare You yet?)

Wendy was a lot of other things too. She was tolerant and compassionate. She cared deeply about the planet. She was proud of being a loving mother and loyal friend.

When I taught Wendy a new way to express herself, a way that allows men to see ALL the attractive sides of herself, her life changed. When she learned how to talk about her dreams as well as her accomplishments, Wendy started making real connections with men instead of just going on dates.

Wendy is now happily living with a man she met about six months later. He loves coming home to her.


You don’t have to take my word for it, here is what women I’ve coached say about dating their way to love:


[su_column size=”1/2″][su_testimonial name=”Suzanne 41…New York, NY” photo=””]“Thank you Bobbi for putting together this program. It helped me understand I was still dating like a teenager. It has changed my life! I am dating a great guy now who adores me and I adore him. And he’s someone I would have never picked before I took your course. Thank you for teaching me how to recognize and attract this wonderful man. ”[/su_testimonial][/su_column]
[su_column size=”1/2″][su_testimonial name=”Louise 52…Manchester, UK” photo=””]As you know when I started your course I was on a much needed dating break. But I jumped back online in week 2 and it’s amazing…all of the sudden I’m seeing those men you taught us about. I ignored them before but now they look like great candidates. It’s been five weeks, I’ve had six dates and two are Date #2s! It’s not painful anymore. Dating seems new and really fun! [/su_testimonial][/su_column]


Still with me? Please pay attention because what I’m about to share with you truly can be life-changing. But I can only make the opportunity available to you for the next few days.

You’re here and still reading this and I’m guessing it’s because there’s something you really want but unlike everything else in your life, you can’t figure this freaking thing out. You’re so smart, but this man thing has you stumped.

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]Maybe you’re like Susan and feel like if you have to spend one more date with an older/duller/dumber guy than you expected you’re going to have to go on permanent break.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]And maybe you finally find a man you really like. He’s interesting, he’s fun to talk to…there’s definite chemistry.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”24″]Or, like Wendy, the thought of one more experience of meeting a guy you really like who disappears actually feels painful.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Or maybe dating is simply boring and you’re sick and tired of wasting time that you don’t have. [/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Maybe you’re just about at the end of your rope and aren’t even willing to accept that if you give up now you’re going to live the rest of your life alone.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: share” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Maybe you have girlfriends who have great guys to do fun things with, who are there for them and who share the load…and you’re wondering why you’re still doing everything in life yourself. [/su_icon_text]

Look, I lived this for about 30 years. I know what I’m talking about.

I dated for 30 years before I met and married my husband at age 47. I went through all the phases. I would date like a maniac…have 20 first dates and never a call back, and I’d go on hiatus.

I fell for the losers, liars, cheaters, non-committals and narcissists. I got hung up on married men (they always really liked me!) and did some things I’m not proud of. Looking back I’m sure that I missed some really good men I could have had some really nice times with.

Some men did ask me out again – maybe 1 in 15 – but they weren’t anyone I was interested in. I did meet some men I liked. But over those 30 years about 10 asked me out again. That was usually about it. No third date.

I literally went years going on first dates After a lot of years of no phone ringing, no one asking me out and empty online dating in-boxes, when a man showed interest I’d do everything I could to try to make it work. That got me either stuck with a guy who made me miserable OR with a heart that felt stomped on.

That was my story.

I had a great life. On the outside I was happy and “fine being single.” I “knew I was a catch!” It seemed so mysterious that men hardly ever showed interest in me romantically. (I had lots of men friends.) I chalked it up to my thighs. My fat thighs. Guys were pigs and not giving me a chance because of what I looked like.

On the inside I was sad and I really was lonely. I wanted a guy to hang out with. I wanted someone to love me. I felt left out and different. I seriously felt like a loser. So for those 30 years, I was jumping between being a crazy-first-date-psycho woman, stuck in a short affair with the wrong man OR on “hiatus”…which meant Alone. (Capitol “A by design.)

I was so sick of it, so I finally took personal responsibility and changed my life.

And then…I had enough. I was about 45 and decided I was sick of being single. I accepted it was all about me and that I needed help. I obviously wasn’t going to be able to find love by dating my way.

In those days there were no dating coaches, so I hired a therapist. (Which I still do when I need help.) Over the course of time, she taught me so many things. I had some pretty giant ah ha’s…and they changed my life.

When I went on dates, they wanted to see me again. There was more laughter and I was liking most of the men I was meeting. I remember driving home one night from a meet-date realizing that I wasn’t exhausted! I couldn’t believe it. I was actually relaxed, having fun and feeling positive. Dating. Unbelievable.

And it was all because of ME – the changes that I made. The things that I learned. My courage and my self-awareness. My willingness to take responsibility and get expert support. Yep…I ROCKED!!!

And at 47…

I met Larry online and he was my last first date. He asked me out for the next day, and the next…and we’ve been together for over eight years. We still have date night every Wednesday.

What that one woman taught me led me directly to the happiest years in my life. And what YOU are going to learn in your Bootcamp can do the same for you.

I loved my therapist. I’m a huge believer in getting help from experts when I’m not getting the results in life that I want and I can’t figure it out myself. I did a lot of other info gathering during that time, but here are the most important things I learned from Anne (and what I’m going to teach you):

1) It’s the differences between men and women that men celebrate and when I began to embrace that, men were drawn to me like a magnet.

Any fear, anxiety and distrust I had around single men was due to my lack of information and false truths. That’s so much of what created my Wall of I Dare You. Learning the truth about what men really want from women, how they feel about relationships and how to bridge our differing communication styles…that was priceless!!

With this new understanding I felt a wonderful empathy and understanding for men. I realized they were glorious…and they thought I was glorious! It opened up a world where I could talk to men openly, with confidence and without my walls. I started seeing lovely, attractive men everywhere. And they started SEEING (and wanting) ME!

2) No confident, relationship-minded grownup man wants to climb a woman’s Wall of I Dare You.

I wanted a man who was looking for real partnership. I wanted him to love my independence and smarts. I also wanted him to be open and loving and kind. I learned that that’s what that kind of man also wants from a woman. Openness, kindness…availability and real desire to have a loving relationship.

That guy wasn’t climbing my wall. I had to knock the damn thing down and learn how to be the real me with men. Because I WAS that loving woman. It was time to let her out.

3) If you want a grownup man, you have to learn how to date like a grownup.

All I knew about dating was what I learned in junior high school. Do what he wants so he likes you. You have to let him chase you. Be low maintenance or he won’t stay with you. Men are only interested in what you look like. Men are intimidated by smart women.

NONE OF THIS IT TRUE ABOUT GROWNUP MEN! If I didn’t get a fresh education about these dudes and learn how to communicate and make real connection, I was going to be single forever.

The solution to getting out of first date hell is right here…thanks to the Today Show.

Six women, who are just like you, recently joined me for a journey to love. Yes, it was on the Today Show and on national TV. And that was really cool. But NBC invited me as an expert to help these women find love. I was there to do real work and help real women.

So I asked myself:

What tools and information have been most transformational for my private coaching clients? What has moved these women from being painfully or boringly single to joyfully dating and ultimately to being in love?

The answers to those questions are what I used to create an intense, highly impactful Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp.

The women of the Today Show came highly motivated to learn how to end their single-ness. After just a few hours absorbing my most powerful material, their sadness, frustration and sense of futility was gone.

Instead, these smart, beautiful, loving women left the bootcamp with open hearts, newfound knowledge and compassion for men and excitement for the future.

What did they get during those few hours with me that made such a big difference in their life?

They learned that they (like YOU) were already 90% there.

Meeting more men, and eventually THE man, wasn’t only possible, it was simpler than they thBootcampBook_Package_Mockupought. And

They just needed to learn a few new things about themselves and men.

And they needed new real-life, tangible tools and skills to help them meet more men, get more dates and have more fun.

Now, after teaching these six women, it’s time to share Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp with the thousands (millions!) of other women who are in the same place as these fantastic women: You want to meet an attractive, interesting, grownup guy, have a few great dates and eventually move into a great relationship! Easy!

Four weeks of new information and new (surprising!) perspective will change your life.

[su_testimonial name=”Susan – TODAY show bootcamp” photo=””]After the TODAY show workshop I decided to take a risk. I had been emailing someone on, but we hadn’t met. I called him, we had a great conversation; we met and found we had a lot in common. We’re now on our fifth date! My romantic life used to be Crash & Burn; I kept making the same mistakes. As a Bobbi pointed out, I was actually choosing the same guy over and over and these weren’t men who would make good husbands…not even close. It was time for a change! Bobbi taught me to be patient, have fun, and to not let him decide if I’m good enough. I should decide if being around him is making me happy and allowing me to feel good about myself. I never would have dreamed that I needed this help. Luckily, I had the opportunity to work with Bobbi — it has made a world of difference in how I am communicating with men and even how I’m feeling about myself. -Susan, 55[/su_testimonial]

[su_testimonial name=”Joyce – TODAY show bootcamp” photo=””]Although it has been less than a week since I participated in the TODAY show workshop, I can definitely say I left more excited and hopeful about navigating the Post-50 dating world. With Bobbi’s coaching, I’ve been able to embrace my midlife mind, body, and FEMININITY! I’m so grateful for having had the opportunity to spend the day with like-minded women and Bobbi. Bobbi is a very genuine woman with a gift of compassion and understanding how challenging, intimidating and sometimes hopeless looking for long lasting love can be. She leaves you with the skills to empower yourself long after the workshop if you choose to incorporate the newfound knowledge and confidence into your everyday life. -Joyce, 52[/su_testimonial]

When you register for my Bootcamp, you receive a total of FIVE HOURS of intensive training and coaching over the course of FOUR WEEKS. Your sessions are delivered to you in an easy downloadable AUDIO format, along with a comprehensive workbook to accompany each audio lesson.

Your first audio and workbook arrive via email on Wednesday September 24, and then each Wednesday for the following three weeks. While I recommend that you focus for these four weeks and complete the Bootcamp, you will have the Bootcamp materials and can complete sessions at your pace without missing a thing! And you will have them to review as you need the information and support while you date.

When you join me, here is what you get:

Register for my Bootcamp and get a MINIMUM of FIVE HOURS of intensive training and expert coaching over the course of four weeks. Choose to participate LIVE or to take the course as an in-home program.

Bootcamp LIVE session dates are:

* September 23
* September 30
* October 7
* October 14

Session times are 5:30pm PT – 7:15pm PT. Click here to convert to your time zone.

I admit, these sessions are pretty long. But this is Bootcamp, sister! I want you to get all the information and support you need as fast as you can…so IN JUST ONE MONTH you’re ready to date in a way that leads you to your Mr. I Love You! (To be truthful, sometimes I even go a little later to answer all your questions.)

If you can’t participate LIVE, choose the Bootcamp Homestudy and receive the recorded training sessions each week beginning on September 24.

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Here’s what your Bootcamp program includes:

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Four weekly LIVE sessions – A total of FIVE HOURS of training and coaching with Bobbi!

Receive a non-stop flow of surprising information about men, learn new communication skills and experience powerful exercises that are proven to help women like you make immediate positive changes and start dating in a way that leads you to love.
Live Sessions begin Tuesday, September 23 and continue each Tuesday through October 14.
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Two additional hours of LIVE Q&A

Get answers to YOUR dating and relationship questions! Each Bootcamp session includes an opportunity to ask questions and receive laser-coaching from Bobbi. You will also hear her coach other women through their dating challenges, which adds tremendous value to your Bootcamp experience.[/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″] [/su_column] [/su_row]

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Additional Accountability!

Active participation leads to deeper learning and retention. Join Bobbi and your group of sisters LIVE each week and have a place to “go.” You’ll be far more likely to stay with the program .[/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″] [/su_column] [/su_row]

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Webcast: How To Dress For Dates So You Look and Feel Your Best!

Get immediate access to Bobbi’s interview with expert Kimberly Seltzer, of Elite Image Makeovers. Design a Dating Image that Will Attract the Right Men (and That You Will Love) gives you simple but powerful tips to help you feel gorgeous and attract the men you like…in a grownup way, of course.[/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″] [/su_column] [/su_row]

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Recordings of all live Q and A!

As a LIVE member you will receive downloadable recordings of the Q&A portion of each session. Don’t worry if you miss a session, you will still be able to hear Bobbi coach the other women. (It’s likely you’ll hear answers to questions that you would ask!)[/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″] [/su_column] [/su_row]

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Recordings of all Bootcamp LIVE Sessions!

Receive all the life-changing information, skills training and exercises Bobbi shares during Bootcamp LIVE in recorded format. The morning following each LIVE Bootcamp session you will receive access to a recording that you can listen to and/or save to your audio library. You can refer back whenever you need to spruce up your dating skills or you just need Bobbi’s support.
Your first Bootcamp recorded session will arrive by 5am PT, Wednesday, September 24.
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In-depth Support Guides!

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Bobbi’s Acclaimed First Date Handbook

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Webcast: Casting the Net: Where is He and How Do I Meet Him?

Want to know how to meet more men? This recorded webcast gives you tips on how to meet men everywhere and anywhere. Get Bobbi’s genius advice about where to go, how to start conversations, how to flirt (like a grownup, of course) and how to get him to ask you out.[/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [su_column size=”1/5″][su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″][/su_column] [/su_row]

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Private Resources Page!

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100% Money Back Guarantee!

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[su_testimonial name=”Alice – TODAY show bootcamp” photo=””]Taking Bobbi’s workshop on dating was a mind blowing experience. I have been on a dating break, but I’m happily getting started again. More than anything Bobbi taught me that dating can be fun — I can make it that way! I get to try all new tools she taught me with my grown up, sassy self to find the right husband who makes me happy. I get to decide how I feel on dates, who makes me feel comfortable or adored and who doesn’t. Bobbi expertly teaches you how to open up a conversation on a date so that you really find out who someone is and what motivates them, as well as laying out what is important to you in bite size “nuggets”. It is truly a fascinating system that works, and I for one cannot wait to continue using these tools in my my brand new home in California! -Alice, 50 [/su_testimonial]

So…how is the Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp Going to Help YOU?

Let me share what you are going to be able to do, what you are going to know and how you are going to feel once you complete Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp. You will:

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”26″]Feel safer and more relaxed with men after closing the chapter on the misinformation and old beliefs that are getting your feelings hurt and turning off the very men you want to attract.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Know and LOVE yourself even more when you learn to bring a new part of you out to play. (She’s the woman the man you want yearns for. And, no, I’m not going to turn you into a girly-girl.)[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Have greater respect and compassion for men once you know our differences and understand they live to make you happy.[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Stop wasting time on the “shiny” but wrong guys and stop missing the good guys by making deeper and meaningful connections on the very first date. [/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Easily attract the right men by simply being yourself using my Simple Secret Weapon. (Seems weird, but many of us really have to learn how to be “real” with men. It’s so much fun!) [/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Never waste time on pre-date nerves or  that last-minute temptation to cancel by learning  my 5 simple steps to prepare for your dates. [/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″] Get something positive out of every single date and never waste your time again when you grab responsibility for your happiness and manage your expectations. (Even if he’s NOT “the one.”)[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Be done with that painful first date conversation using my proven tips, talking points and scripts. (whether he’s talking your ear off or there’s painful silence).[/su_icon_text]

[su_icon_text icon=”icon: check” icon_color=”#D32250″ icon_size=”28″]Be in control of your dating life just like the rest of your life!![/su_icon_text]

Get help like I did…Join me at Bootcamp and start dating in a way that leads you to love.

Is it time to jump (or dump) YOUR WALL and learn how to have fun with men? Can you imagine having the tools and the mindset to never again go on a date and have nothing to show for it?

If you have read this and think NOW is the time for you to stop complaining about dating (or hiding from it) and start going out and enjoying yourself with those fabulous men…click that button.

If you’re a woman who wants revolutionary change in your love life, there’s a button over there, just click and in 5 minutes you’re going to be on the path to dating in a new (surprisingly enjoyable) way.

So…how much will you pay?

You know…I wondered how to price this program to get the information and support to as many women as possible. I sincerely believe that any woman who is dating after 40 — or any woman who wants to live her life with a grownup man — MUST KNOW all that I am teaching in the Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp.

So I am committed to making this program highly affordable.  For 5 recorded hours of my expert training and coaching and your detailed Support Guides, the Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp is not $450

Your investment is only


…seriously, that’s it!

(Bootcamp registration is going to be open only a few days! If this is for you, I recommend that you do the clicking now.)




Oh…and to make it a no-brainer, I’m adding these bonuses that will help you meet more men and get more dates.

I believe so much in what I’m teaching here, I’m going to make this a no-brainer for you. I know everyone piles on bonus materials to make the offer look really juicy, but these aren’t just added for show. These are invaluable tools to have in your tool belt. The Bootcamp teaches you to have great dates…this helps you get them!
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  • My First Date Handbook
    You’re a smart, savvy, sizzling woman who has created a great life for herself, right? Isn’t it time you achieve the same success in your love life? My First Date Handbook gives you 70+ pages of acclaimed articles that help you erase uncertainty and urge to give up dating. Read this and get more clarity, confidence and skills you need to date with ease. Start having fun dating, feel in control and get the fantastic grownup men you like to ask you out again and again.
  • Casting the Net: Where is He and How Do I Meet Him
    Want to know how to meet more men? This recorded webcast gives you tips on how to meet men everywhere and anywhere. I give you a list of places to go, but you get much more. Learn how to start conversations, how to flirt (like a grownup, of course) and how to get him to ask you out.[/su_row][/su_panel]

I’m pricing this so every woman who is dating and not meeting the right men can learn what I am going to share: very for you, you get recordings and all the bonuses…click the button…you’re going to get the entire Bootcamp program and bonuses for only $67.And check this out:

Because I know how powerful this material is, and because I want you to invest in yourself whole-heartedly and give it a try – I’m taking ALL of the financial risk right off of your shoulders with a guarantee that I KNOW you can’t pass up!


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I know this is going to cost some money and some time, but don’t worry, you are going to get way more value. You are getting some of my very best coaching that I offer my private coaching clients for $4000+.

[su_testimonial photo=””]I have been married twice, I am 60, and I did something very nurturing for myself 5 months ago: I hired Bobbi Palmer to help me get past my fears, get into the ‘dating waters’ and find my last husband….
Well, I am having dinner with Bachelor #10 tonight…..and although my dating stories have been funny & interesting, the best part has been this: What I have learned about myself and men could fill volumes; that I don’t have to ‘change’ to find Mr. Right…..but I did need to shift my perceptions of them to even allow the right guy into the arena.
And, I am having fun dating for the first time ever….real important !! So if any of you are serious to find the right guy or have a friend who is, contact Bobbi. She is very smart, compassionate, and is ALWAYS right (which drives me crazy)! She has walked this path, so SHE KNOWS !  -Pegi, 62[/su_testimonial]

If you are looking to meet available, high quality men and be able to attract them without games and without stress, this is the perfect opportunity for you. And your investment is for less than the cost of a nice dinner and a movie with your girlfriends!

Register for the Bootcamp. I can’t wait to hear from you! It’s time to bring love into your life and have some fun looking, sister.

With love and support,
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PS: I can give you all kinds of guilt trips here or tell you how, if you don’t do this in five years you’re going to be sorry…but that’s not my schtick. Instead, I’m just going to say “Welcome to the Bootcamp.” Because I know that if you’re dating or have the chance to date…you want to feel optimistic and prepared. You’re smart. You know this is a hugely valuable opportunity for you.