Helping you find a loving man to share your life is truly my passion. I did it. So can you.

Have a few minutes? Here is a synopsis. (The longer version is below.)

Hi. My name is Bobbi Palmer. I am a 52-year-old, joyfully married, proudly imperfect, open-minded, kinda short, often sassy, ebullient, critical thinking, optimistic, gentle but direct ex-corporate manager now coach-and-trusted girlfriend who helps smart, accomplished grownup women Find Hope and then Find Him.

My expertise comes from decades of teaching, consulting, managing and mentoring people.  More importantly, it comes from becoming a first-time bride at age 47 and experiencing firsthand how we can transform from pretty damn happy single gals to emotionally fulfilled, peacefully happy women secure in knowing they are loved…forever.

I offer real-world advice and deep compassion that can come only from a grownup woman who’s been there. My passion for helping you achieve what I did, along with my unique ability to teach and support you, has taken countless women from dreading dating to joyfully searching for and finding, not just a man who loves them, but the self-love that has to come first.

Here is the longer, more fascinating version:

My commitment to you as a your coach is a labor of love: mine and yours. It’s a gift to give yourself as the smart and deserving woman you are. It leads you to the clarity, confidence and optimism you need to get out there, find joy in dating, and have success in choosing your life partner.

It’s a gift to me when a woman I work with tells me she feels good about herself for the first time in years; that she finally realizes there are tons of nice men out there and she’s having fun meeting them; that she feels hopeful, confident and well-prepared to attract a good man; and finally that she has met someone special who values and loves her in the way she’s always hoped for. These are gifts to me.
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I didn’t grow up wanting to be a dating and relationship coach. No one does, right? So how the heck did I get here?

My entire adult life has been about helping adults learn so they can enrich and improve their lives. I spent 25 years in the corporate world creating, delivering and managing training programs. that helped people develop business and life skills so they could reach their personal and professional goals. I taught people how to communicate with one another, support those who needed their help and expertise, sell things, use computers, be effective managers and mentors…you name it. I even taught Navy personnel how satellites communicate to earth. I enjoyed it all, and I was successful.

But eventually my passion waned. I felt the need to provide a service that felt more natural to me…more human and meaningful. And what is more meaningful than love?

I’m Not Just a Dating Coach…I’m a Dating Success Story!

I was 47 when I found the love of my life and married for the first time. When I met him I had a great house, thriving career, spectacular friends, nice things…and a fierce pride for my independence and accomplishments. (He really dug that!) I had a lovely life.

But meeting Larry and developing our relationship so enriched that life, and I finally felt the kind of happiness I thought was reserved for other women only. With his strength, compassion and enormous capacity to love and be loved, Larry is the type of man I wished every woman could have in her life. It was then I realized that this was what I was meant to teach next.

I had to share how I did this with other smart, independent women. I needed to tell them how I shifted my life from one of lonesomeness, frustration and mere contentment as a single woman to feeling extraordinary as a woman who shares love with a devoted, good (and hot!) man. (I so scored!)

I’ve developed my program to gently yet directly guide you through the self-discovery, education and real-life experience that helped me make this remarkable shift in my life. I know it will help you.

If you’re like I was (successful in other parts of your life but frustrated with your search for love)… if you’re feeling like a life that includes a deep and meaningful relationship is out of your reach… if you have been looking but never finding… my program is for you.

I look forward to showing you how you can top off your already-nice life with a meaningful relationship while enjoying – not just enduring – the journey along the way. I seriously can’t wait to share this with you.

With love and support. Be good to yourself.