Don’t Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the… Read more

Sex after 40… You Bet it Can it Be Hot

Ladies, are you looking for love and can’t wait to hop into bed with your new guy? Think of it: slowly undressing…. eyes locked…. savoring each other’s bodies… lust so intense that you both might… Read more

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid of Being Naked in Front of Him

Are you excited about the notion of hopping into bed with your new guy? Slowly undressing…eyes locked…savoring each other’s bodies…lust so intense that you both might explode… …or does the thought of it make you… Read more

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… Read more

Why Every Single Woman Over 40 Should Use a Vibrator

Masturbation. There…I said it. The “Big M.” And the most efficient way to get the job done is to use a vibrator. I don’t generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the… Read more

Why We Pick the Wrong Men When Dating

I’m going on vacation and haven’t packed a thing. So I’m re-posting this popular article about keeping an open mind and being realistic when you date. If I didn’t follow this advice five years ago,… Read more

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating?

When Do Men Expect to Have Sex While Dating? I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating… Read more