Men and commitment

The Big Myth About Men and Commitment (ask George Clooney)

When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow?  Does anything like this pop… Read more

Are You Attracting Cads and Pingers? (FemiType #6: The Sexpot)

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it… Read more

Talking About Money When Dating or in a New Relationship

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face… Read more

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Stay Safe and Stop Getting Hurt By Setting Dating Rules

Can you define your dating rules and boundaries? If your answer is no or if you’re not sure, STOP right now and take 7 minutes to read this. Because if you want to stay safe…if… Read more

4 Ways to Get His Attention Online or Out and About

No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as… Read more

Midlife Sex: A Reality Check

Can I make a few assumptions? If you’re reading this you are most likely a woman over 40, single and looking. You are probably dating, or hoping to. You are either nearing menopause, in menopause… Read more

One Surprising Way Men Help Us While Hurting Us

It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn’t real; how there’s no such thing as… Read more

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How Do I Tell Him I Have Herpes? [Video]

If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something that you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. How do I tell him I have herpes is one… Read more

Man and woman deciding when to have sex

How Do I Decide When to Have Sex?

Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about… Read more

Don’t Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the… Read more