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What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)

I love men. I’m often asked whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men dating after 40. I don’t. But I DO help men by helping women who are dating after 40. (It really… Read more

Key #3 to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40: Shed Your Stuff

This is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40. I know that you are a fabulous, smart accomplished woman who has created a… Read more

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What 100+ Single Men Think and Feel About Cheating, Love and More

As your dating and relationship coach it’s so important that I teach you as much as I can about men: who they are, what dating is like for them what they want , what they mean… Read more

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6 Ways to Get Him to Talk About Feelings (Advice from a Dude!)

How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of… Read more

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How to Handle Your Baggage When Dating after 40

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… Read more

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Stay Safe and Stop Getting Hurt By Setting Dating Rules

Can you define your dating rules and boundaries? If your answer is no or if you’re not sure, STOP right now and take 7 minutes to read this. Because if you want to stay safe…if… Read more

How To Ask And Answer The Question: Where Is This Relationship Going??

You’ve been seeing him for a little while. It’s somewhat regular. You think he could be The One. But you have no idea what he’s thinking. Is he into you? Is he looking for a… Read more

Midlife Sex: A Reality Check

Can I make a few assumptions? If you’re reading this you are most likely a woman over 40, single and looking. You are probably dating, or hoping to. You are either nearing menopause, in menopause… Read more

[Video] What To Do When a Relationship Doesn’t Work Out

I had a disappointment today. I blew an opportunity to do well at something that was super important to me. I was struggling to find a way to fix it…to make it right. So I… Read more

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How Do I Tell Him I Have Herpes? [Video]

If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something that you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. How do I tell him I have herpes is one… Read more