My Very Personal Perfectly Imperfect over 40 Love Story

Here are 4 words that, years ago, I never thought I would hear: “Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary!” Yep, this week Larry and I celebrated the 10th year of our over 40 Love Story. No expensive… Read more

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A Senior Love Story You Just Can’t Miss

Today the New York Times published an article about an epic senior love story. I’m still smiling from reading this beautiful story of love and marriage. I wanted to be sure you didn’t miss it.… Read more

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Hey…Let’s All Celebrate DEpendence Day!

This week my country celebrates its Independence Day and it makes me think…we should celebrate DEpendence Day! How do you feel about that? Are you afraid of depending on a man? For so many women, dependence… Read more

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Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… Read more

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Ready to Date Exclusively But He’s Not? Here’s What to Do.

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… Read more

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Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… Read more

Should I Say Yes and Be Exclusive? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… Read more

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How Do I Know When to Break Up With Him?

When you’re dating someone and start noticing things going wrong, how do you know whether it’s time to break up with him? I see so many potential relationships go bad for so many trivial reasons. Read on to get some guidance… Read more

The Delightful Difference Between Dating Men and Boys

If you are a single woman in her 40’s, 50’s or beyond, I have a question for you: When you look at yourself today, are you the same person you were in your 20s or… Read more