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15 Ways to Get a Second Date…Like a Grownup

He’s a man you want to know better.  How do you make this first date the best time possible and turn it into a second date? Here’s exactly how: Dazzle him. Dazzling the right man is actually… Read more

Is He Into Me? Answering the $1M Question

Dating a man and wondering ‘is he into me?’ Here are four very clear signals to help you KNOW if you are on his radar as a potential girlfriend.

Dateless During the Holidays: Tis the Season for Breakups and Bad Dates

Okay, let’s say it like it is: Being dateless for the holidays can suck. It can be a really funky time for single gals. At the same time your angst over being dateless for New Years Eve… Read more

Want to become a better dater and (man) lover? Learn what over-40 men face when dating. Surprise!!

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)

I love men. I’m often asked whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men dating after 40. I don’t. But I DO help men by helping women who are dating after 40. (It really… Read more

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… Read more

What You Should Know About Texting and Dating

Over the past few years it seems that almost every dating dilemma I hear from my coaching clients and girlfriends has something to do with texting. Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year olds… Read more

How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You (and Save Your Relationship!)

My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked… Read more

Why Dating Older Men Seems Boring & What You’re Missing If You Don’t

“Ann” is a 50-something single woman, using online dating. She’s looking for an energetic, passionate and interesting man. The majority of men who are contacting her are old dudes; like in their 60s. Dating older men seems so freaking… Read more

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What 100+ Single Men Think and Feel About Cheating, Love and More

As your dating and relationship coach it’s so important that I teach you as much as I can about men: who they are, what dating is like for them what they want , what they mean… Read more

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The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… Read more