It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations,… Read more

It’s a fact: when you are dating to find love, especially later in life, taking the slower road may be the best AND the quickest path. I admit that I love when I’m proven right.… Read more

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… Read more

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… Read more

So…your man gets in touch and stops. And keeps doing it. Why does he keep disappearing and reappearing? It’s frustrating, confusing and maddening, isn’t it? Well, sister, there’s a good chance you’re being “Pinged” and… Read more

Let’s say you’ve dated someone for a month or a few months and you’ve decided to break up with him. You’ve given it your best shot, which means you’ve kept your mind open, focused on… Read more

When you’re dating and trying to get to know one another, there’s a good chance he’s going to ask you all kinds of questions. How do you answer his question that seems rude, or that… Read more

He’s a man you want to know better.  How do you make this first date the best time possible and turn it into a second date? Here’s exactly how: Dazzle him. Dazzling the right man is actually… Read more

Okay, let’s say it like it is: Being dateless for the holidays can suck. It can be a really funky time for single gals. At the same time your angst over being dateless for New Years’ Eve… Read more