Dating after 40 and Beyond

What if This is Your Last Valentine’s Day as a Single Woman?

What if you KNEW this was going to be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or alone on… Read more

Do You Test Men Like I Did? (It’s a Wall of I Dare You)

For the past several days I’ve been sharing my There-to-Here story. Yep, this another long email. I have SO much to share and teach you. It will only take you 10 minutes to read this.… Read more

It’s NOT the size of your thighs, sister!

I’m back to continue my story of how I got from “there to here.” Last time I shared my Big Lesson #1: You DO need a stinkin’ man. I finally learned that our “I don’t need a… Read more

You DO Need a Stinkin’ Man, sister

(This is the second of four posts that teach you my “There-to-Here” story. Yep, they’re long. And the 10 minutes it takes you to read this RIGHT NOW may alter the course of your life…directly toward grownup love. Today’s post… Read more

Ever Say “My Life is Great…BUT…?” (Let’s take care of that But!)

Do you ever look back at your old diary or journal entries? It can be pretty dang enlightening. A while ago I came across a diary entry of mine from Valentine’s Day 2001. I was 42.… Read more

Why Can’t I Find Love?

Wondering Why Can’t I Find Love? Here are 47 Things Standing in Your Way

I can say — completely unashamedly — that my years as a married woman have been the absolute best of my life. Hands down. First, I had to I had to ask myself the question:… Read more

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The Truth about Single Men and Strong Women

Are you a smart, independent, single woman who is dating after 40 and having a hell of a time finding good men to date? Are you starting to think there are just no good men… Read more

woman tired of being single

Tired of Being Single? 3 Simple Steps to Get You Unstuck.

By the time I was 47 and never married or even in a long-term relationship I was the epitome of tired of being single. Now, even though I’ve been happily married since 2006, I still… Read more

Bobbi Palmer

A Personal Message for the New Year – Let’s Move Forward!

Happy 2019! I am going to do all I can to help you make this the year you get unstuck and start living the life you are imagining…and meant to live! Watch this short video… Read more

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Should You Lie About Your Age in Your Profile? (Video)

Here is an email I recently received: “I just got up my courage and took a look at the dating site Our Time, and here is one of my big concerns: I’m 68 but most… Read more