Dating after 40 and Beyond

3 Ways to Prepare for a Great Date

Before we get to our blog post, can I brag to you for a minute? I did two things in the last two weeks that I’m really proud of: 1) I started exercising, and 2)… Read more

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4 Ways to Flirt With a Man…Like a Grownup

Maybe you used to be a great flirt, but how do you flirt with a man now? No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and… Read more

10 Tips to Kick-Start Positive Change

All right, ladies. I trust we all got through Valentine’s Day, right? But let’s make this your last February fourteenth when you don’t have a fab date! To do that, you’re going to have to… Read more

Valentine’s Day: Make It All about YOU!

Have you been dreading it and trying to avoid it? Chances are pretty good – thanks to all the advertising and silliness – that you’re keenly aware Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. I… Read more

How to Spot the Bad Guys and Chase Them Away

Do you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t care what you want and need? I’m going to assume the answer is “no.” So I have to ask: Why would you… Read more

8 Ways to Prevent Turning to Mush around Single Men

I’ve heard the same thing from so many women this week that I had to ask you if this sounds familiar: “I’m generally a very friendly, confident gal…unless I’m in the company of a single… Read more

10 Things You Can Learn about a Guy without Interrogating Him

You know how I constantly tell you that you don’t have to dig deep into a man’s soul or obtain a full biography upon first meeting? There are a lot of things you can learn… Read more

Dating over 40: This is Why He’s Not Asking You Out

Continuing from a previous article, it’s important to make yourself memorable when you are dating. There are tons of women out there; you want to be the one he wants to know. When you follow… Read more

Dating over 40: Why He’s Not Asking You Out

I can answer this in three words: You’re not memorable. That’s it. Whether it’s the hot man you had a nice chat with at the local coffee shop or the guy you had a great… Read more

Why You’re Still Single

One of my clients recently said, “I don’t think there’s something wrong with me; I just think I’m doing something wrong.” Bingo. The majority of women who come to me for help with dating and… Read more