Find Hope and Find Him Private Coaching
“I truly believe I am in love for the very first time. This relationship is so different from any other … I can’t express enough how working with you has changed my life…even though I was a very big skeptic!”
~ Debbie 53
For the accomplished, smart, independent woman who is ready to have a partner in life, and knows that she CAN make love happen…
with the right help.
(Only a select number of women are accepted for my highly successful and personalized coaching programs. If you are reading this, it is because I admire you, and I am confident I can lead you to the love you so deserve.)
When you are one of my exclusive private Find Him and Find Hope clients, I am your expert guide, teacher and compassionate cheerleader as you journey through powerful inner exploration and on to bringing quality, grownup men into your life.
You will transform from a pretty happy single gal, to a deeply fulfilled, proud, empowered woman who knows how to love and be loved. You will have 100% hope of getting that love and companionship you have wanted for so many years. And you will know exactly how to attract it.
This comprehensive “Find Hope and Find Him” program gives you the gentle support, must-have information and tangible, real-life tools you need to get out there, meet good men and find the one who becomes your loving life partner.
You will break free from years of the fears, worries and beliefs that have had you paralyzed or stuck in the same negative cycle. You will feel proud and worthy and clear about the man and relationship that will make you happy. You will be in control of your dating process and able to attract the men you like who are ready for relationship.
Honestly, this is not for the uncommitted. Your best results come when you are willing to dive in and stay focused during our time together. I am here to be your mentor, teacher and absolute supporter. Ultimately, though, your success takes place when you are open to new information, willing to step outside your comfort zone and committed to taking direct steps toward meeting fabulous men. (Remember, all it takes is ONE!)
During our time together you will:
- Feel confident as a woman worthy of the love of a good man by rediscovering and falling in love with yourself.
- Eliminate the exhaustion that comes with dating by having clarity about how to share who you are in a positive yet 100% real way.
- Pick the men who will make you happy and dump the rest because you’ll know exactly what you want in a man and relationship.
- Stop getting the same bad results by identifying your self-sabotaging thoughts and acts and managing them once and for all.
- Truly enjoy yourself on dates because you have a true understanding and appreciation of men.
- Be the woman that the interesting, passionate, love-minded men want to date (not just be friends with).
- Get what you want and need from men by learning how to make yourself #1, and communicate your needs in a kind and clear way.
Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Rebecca K.
I'M VERY EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE THAT WE WILL BE GETTING MARRIED IN APRIL ON A CRUISE TO THE CARIBBEAN!!!
You are an angel in my life, and it's no accident our paths have crossed! I'm so grateful for your guidance, Bobbi! Thank you so much! I'm blissfully in love and having the time of my life with this amazing man! I definitely would not be where I am today without your guidance and support! Thank you so much for helping me to manifest my dreams into reality!! - Rebecca K, 40
This is for you if you’re ready to:
- See yourself for the beautiful Woman you are and embrace your gorgeous feminine power.
- Unstick yourself from limiting beliefs and old patterns so you can break free, have fun and meet the right men.
- Get clarity on the man and the relationship you want and deserve.
- Learn more about how GROWNUP men think and feel so you can have successful communication and you don’t waste time and energy trying to figure them out. (I’ll bet that you’re usually wrong, anyway).
- Successfully communicate with and attract the good guys (and chase those not-so-good-guys away).
- Make good choices based on what will make you happy for a lifetime…not just one night.
- Be confident in believing you will be a loving, powerful, yet cherished partner of a man who will make you happy for life.
- Attract and maintain an authentic, loving, grownup relationship.
Here is how I will guide, encourage and support you toward your SO important goals in love and in life:
- 10 (Ten) One-on-One private coaching sessions (50-minute sessions conducted by telephone or via Skype)
- 6 (six) Hours of Audio Training and accompanying workbooks
- 1 hour of “DATE 911 Laser Coaching Support” used in 15-minute increments, this emergency coaching is available when you need a pick-me-up, specific tips to prepare for a date, or help debriefing after a date
- Follow-up to each session with written documentation of agreed-upon action steps and exercises to keep you on track and focused between sessions
- Email support throughout the course of your program
- Recordings of each coaching session
- A new or updated Online Dating Profile
- 8 (eight) Hours of Supplementary Coaching via Grownup Girls’ Night Out Archive Webcasts.
- My eBook: 7 Secrets to Finding Love after 40:Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater.
Using my proven 6-Step System to Find Hope and Find Him, this very personalized one-on-one coaching allows us to fully explore the woman you are today, what you have to offer your partner, what will make you happy, and what is standing in your way of fulfilling relationships with men.
You will feel more confident and able to be your true self, feel more in control, become better at picking and attracting men, and be filled with hope and positive anticipation of the happiness and pride that lies ahead.
Our sessions will always include celebrating the fabulous woman you are and defining the man and the relationship that will bring you long-term happiness.
I will get you online or update your current online presence. Then, with my support, you will start down the path of a new way of looking at yourself, men and dating.
Your work with me requires your commitment to growing and learning. That means showing up mind, body and soul and completing assignments and practices.
Your investment for the LIFE AND LOVE CHANGING Find Hope and Find Him 4-month private coaching program is $4600.
A 3-month payment plan is available.
Here are the 6 Steps that will lead you to YOUR grownup love story…with me as your personal guide:
Step 1: Who Am I? Falling in Love With My Grownup, Sexy Self
Yes, you know you are attractive, smart and downright spectacular. After you complete this step you are going to OWN that when it comes to dating, romance and relationships. You see…you ARE the woman the men you want WANT, you just want to make sure you are Her when you’re with men!
Using my unique powerful, but simple method, you will get reacquainted with the whole you, including the gorgeous feminine you, and be able to express her to attract the masculine man you want to share your life with.
Step 2: I’m Fantastic, So What’s the Damn Problem?
If you’re like many successful, single women, your 18-year old is still steering your ship when it comes to men, dating and relationships. I will guide you through digging in and uncovering the voices in your head that self-sabotage and veer you off-course from your oh-so important goal. Then, you will learn powerful tools to shut those voices down and allow your grownup self to run this part of your life as well as she runs the rest!
Step 3: Who is He? Getting Past My List
There is a gigantic difference between a man who is a good date and a man who is a good mate, sister. In this life-changing step, you will learn why the men you have been attracted to just don’t work out.
When you complete my process, you will be crystal clear about the man and relationship that will truly make you happy. You will also know how to spot a good guy when he’s sitting in front of you and quickly chase away the losers and leavers!
Step 4: Casting the Net: Where is He and How Do I Meet Him?
Yes, I’m going to give you places to go and things you can do so you can be in the company of attractive single men. That’s the easy part , though, because good men they are everywhere. The key is what to do once you’re in the same room with them!
Get ready to learn how to confidently and effectively initiate and maintain conversation with any man and, if you like him, get him to ask you out. You will receive scripts and answers to many of your ‘What-If’s’ to guide you. You will also learn some simple but oh-so effective uses of body language…all designed to help you make connections in a 100% classy and grownup way. No game playing…just being YOU and attracting the guy who digs who she really is.
Step 5: From Rendezvous to Romance
Now learn proven but powerful techniques that help you relax into your dates as you flirt with flair, keep him interested and learn what you need to know about him so you can make a good choice. Also, learn exactly how to manage the blabbering man or the silent guy, what to do with the guy you like who puts the move on too soon, etc.
YOU are in control of all your dates and I’ll show you how to take that on with class, kindness and grace. This way your dates will be fun no matter what and you won’t miss great opportunities with good men. (Which you are doing now…I guarantee it.)
Step 6: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Learn the specific questions to ask and things to consider when deciding if he’s a potential great mate. Instead of approaching this emotionally or with your intuition – which hasn’t worked so far – you will use all your previous steps to inform your decision. This balance of head and heart IS Dating Like a Grownup. If he is for you, If he’s not, learn when and how to leave.
Your investment for the LIFE AND LOVE CHANGING Find Hope and Find Him 4-month private coaching program is $4600.
A payment plan is available.
LAST WEEKEND WE DECIDED TO BE EXCLUSIVE AND ARE BOTH RESIGNING OUR MEMBERSHIPS ON MATCH!
After my 2nd marriage broke up at age 59 (9 years ago) I started dating again. Though I didn’t have much trouble getting dates through either Match or social events, but they weren’t the KIND of men I wanted – they didn’t fill my heart with joy. Either they didn’t have my same interests (travel, performing arts, world curiosity, the outdoors), or they wined and dined me only to become self-centered once we were exclusive.
I started getting worried I was too old and that men my age want younger women – in short, that I didn’t have as many options. Bobbi changed my mind about all that! She taught me how to be more confident about what I want and what I have to offer – and that all showed up in my dates.
Bobbi helped me with my profile – it’s now much less serious and my sense of humor comes through. Men liked that. And with my new profile over 50% of the men were the kind of guys I wanted to date! I also learned to flirt - it actually was fun. Bobbi helped me sort out how to spot the players. Now I feel totally safe and in control with my new knowledge!
Bobbi has helped me feel good (and confident!) about wanting a good man in my life and that has rubbed off on my attitude about the rest of my life. - Ann C.
UPDATE: Much to my surprise and when I least expected it, "C" has touched my heart. I asked many questions and he didn't hesitate to answer any of them. The confidence I got from my work with Bobbi helped me recognize a fantastic guy – I almost passed him by, but Bobbi helped me to see that he was a good match for me. Outdoorsy, loves the performing arts, makes me feel safe AND we have great, honest conversations. Without Bobbi I would have missed the opportunity with this great man!
Last weekend we decided to be exclusive and are both resigning our memberships on Match. In the last couple of weeks started introducing each other to our friends. My closest friends like him a lot. "The best man for me that they have ever met" they said. Wow, after all these years. And all thanks to you, Bobbi!
BEING ABLE TO ADMIT THAT WHILE I DIDN'T "NEED" A MAN IN MY LIFE, RATHER IT WOULD BRING ME HAPPINESS TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ONE, WAS HUGE FOR ME. I SOMEHOW THOUGHT THAT WOULD MAKE ME NEEDY - BUT WITH ALL THAT BOBBI HAS TAUGHT ME, JUST THE OPPOSITE IS TRUE.
Before working with Bobbi I was on a 6-year break from dating and I was feeling hopeless! As part of my homework one week, I joined a golf club meetup. A couple weeks in, I met a great guy who initially did not give me butterflies, but who kept showing up for me in ways I'd only dreamed about.
Greg and I have been together ever since...about a year. Thank you again for all your support and advice. I know that taking in a new perspective and making some changes has set me on a happier path. I feel like you helped me "let myself out" and I'm so grateful. And, yes, I'm quite enjoying the relationship that Greg and I are working on together, because it really feels like we're a team. Sometimes I feel so lucky, like I need to pinch myself, just not in a crazy over-the-top way. - Christy M.
BOBBI'S EXPERTISE, SENSE OF HUMOR, AND REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE HAVE HELPED ME NAVIGATE WHAT I AM TRULY LOOKING FOR IN A MAN, AND HAS GIVEN ME THE COURAGE TO GO GET IT!
Bobbi is one of the best-kept secrets on the planet! She has this amazingly magical way of hitting me square between the eyes…building my confidence as I learn the truth about myself and about men. I have “Ah-hah moments” every time I talk to her. And then I actually go out and try what she says…and it works! - Diana, 42
I AM DATING AND IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AMAZING GUY, AND I COULDN'T BE HAPPIER.
I just wanted to let you know you were right – I’m not a lost cause after all. I met him my way, but am dating him your way: I am very open, I have slowed down considerably, and I find myself being very still around him as opposed to always trying to bob and weave and be a moving target. I am honest and real and yes, even vulnerable; and while it freaks me out a little, I am determined to do it. I just wanted to thank you and let you know that I really did take your wisdom to heart, and of course you were right. Thank you for everything you taught me. - Jennifer L.
I started meeting quality, fabulous men for the first time in years and eventually met the love of my life!
I love Bobbi's kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time Bobbi moved me along from being scared to having fun dating. She's the master at Dating Like a Grownup! Bobbi rewrote my online dating profile and helped select pictures. She educated me on how to select men to meet and how to write and answer emails. (My emails got answered for the first time ever!)
This may sound simple, but having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. I hope other ladies in their 40s, 50s and 60s who want a relationship but are scared and lonely find Bobbi and invest in their future. I thank you, Bobbi, from the bottom of my heart. You have given me hope, results, and now love. - Karen C, 63
BOBBI TAUGHT ME HOW TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF AND HOW TO IMPROVE OUR COMMUNICATION SO WE COULD BE TOGETHER AGAIN.
Long story short, after we became boyfriend and girlfriend I thought I didn’t need Bobbi anymore. WRONG!!! I slowly started falling into my old patterns (insecurities) and the relationship came to an end. Joe, and I broke up a year later. I called Bobbi and signed up for her "6 Step course" the same day I broke up with my man. Luckily, Joe and I are back together. Thanks to Bobbi I realized I broke up with him because of a major miscommunication. I am currently working on diminishing my negative old patterns and continuing to work on bettering myself with Bobbi’s help. Now my relationship with Joe is stronger than before. Thanks Bobbi! - Kendra, 30
FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE, I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FANTASTIC GUY, WHO I'M TRULY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH.
Working with Bobbi through Private Coaching after taking her 6-Step course was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. The course gave me an introduction to Bobbi’s way of thinking but the private coaching helped me to overcome my own specific and very personal “hang ups”. If you need clear advice on how to stop being single, I recommend Bobbi! She knows exactly what she is talking about. - Maria S, 36
Joe and I have now been together for 3 ½ years and he invites me to feel all the feelings I’ve fantasized about, and more!
Before working with Bobbi, I had no problem meeting men, just not the right kind of man. Disappointed and heart broken for 7 years, it seemed like I could never meet the kind of man who wanted a long term relationship, was thoughtful of me, was someone could trust, or who would make a great husband.
Being a single mother to a lovely young and impressionable daughter, I needed and wanted to be a good example to her. I was more like the example to her of what "not" to do. I longed to be in a healthy, loving, respectful, fun relationship, but felt defeated and hopeless.
Bobbi taught me the most valuable lesson: It’s all about Me. My focus shifted from does he like me, to do I LIKE HIM? With
Bobbi’s coaching and thought provoking questions, I gained the confidence I was missing. Best of all, I learned to let go of my “list” and honed in on how I wanted to FEEL with my partner.
Without Bobbi, I would not have recognized Joe as the perfect partner for me – but he is exactly that – perfect for me! Bobbi’s coaching gave me a new perspective and changed my life forever. - Shari B, 53
Bobbi is so perceptive. She sees through BS; always with diplomacy & kindness. Get ready to focus, or learn how to, on yourself and what you want. She is a true resource. Having been there, and able to transfer what she learned about for herself, she is the master at providing the tools women need. And I know that her clients who "go away happy" are an honest thrill for her.
Shari, 50 Telluride, CO
BOBBI'S 6-STEP SYSTEM IS A PROVEN, EFFECTIVE METHOD THAT CAN TAKE THE MOST HOPELESS AND LOVE-WEARY WOMAN FROM SICK AND TIRED TO CONFIDENT AND INSPIRED!
Bobbi Palmer is simply the BEST coach in America for any woman over 40 who has tried to convince herself that maybe it's her "fate" to be single, or that she must settle for something less when it comes to finding love and relationship. I have seen Bobbi work miracles. I highly recommend you become a Bobbi Palmer success story now and get on with the REST of your life. YOU deserve it! - Marni Battista, Dating Coach, www.DatingwithDignity.com