The Secret to Meeting Men After 40
A Secret That Most Dating Experts Don’t Even Know
Women over 40 are special!
If you want to discover the secrets women over 40 must know to attract a smart, sexy, passionate and available man, you are in the right place.
Even if you’ve been single for years, no matter how old you are, how much heartbreak you have endured or bad dates you’ve been on, it is NOT too late. In fact, it’s the very best time to bring this man into your life. If you commit yourself to this easy to follow system you will learn the secrets to meeting men in your 40s, 50s and beyond – the secrets that most dating gurus don’t know because they haven’t been there and don’t know your special needs and feelings.
I know because I’ve been there and the system worked for me. I got married at 47 and we just celebrated our 6 year anniversary.
And, it has worked like magic for my clients.
- Stop worrying about where to meet men, and, START MEETING MEN EVERYWHERE. Using my proven “attraction” formula, you will learn how to attract men wherever you go because you have learned the secret to what it is exactly that great men find irresistible. (Learning this formula alone will ensure that you never have to worry about a lack of attention again – AND you don’t have to be 35 or a size 6 for this to work!)
- Learn a “duh, that was easy” strategy to finally putting your best self forward and getting over your past, once and for all. Whether you’re haunted by that “I’m too old” story, past breakups or longtime singledom, you will stop feeling invisible, being afraid of getting hurt or turning into the bitter woman that men run from. Instead you can be open and vulnerable — and BE YOURSELF! (You’ll see that you are already exactly the woman the good men want!)
- Stop being afraid, nervous or obsessing about MEN! Get rid of the compulsive thoughts about what he thinks of you, if he’s going to ask you out and when he’s going to call next, because you know that no matter what happens with the guy, you are beautiful, amazing and worthy of a great man’s love…and there are plenty to go around. (Once you start dating from this place of “hell yeah, I’m awesome, it’s like the man faucet gets turned on, you can have some FUN and MEET YOUR MAN!)
Join me and other women just like you, from the comfort of your home, and learn my Find Hope and Find Him system, which has led countless women around the world to the man of their dreams.
The Secret to Meeting Men after 40: The Proven Formula for Finding, Attracting and Keeping the Man Who Will Adore You for the Rest of Your Life
Your Jumpstart Session is October 15 and Classes Start October 17, 2012
Discover how to go out in the world (and on dates!) as the “real you,” feeling 100% confident and hopeful as a woman worthy of the love of a good man.
During this session you:
- Look at yourself through a new, fresh lens to reconnect with the real and unique You who is irresistible to the right men. (The men you want are looking for a woman who knows and loves herself. You can be that woman!)
- Find the actual words to describe yourself and your special-ness…especially to the men who grab your interest. (This is how you become memorable, and they ask you out again and again.)
- Experience new levels of freedom, hope and self-confidence so you can relax and enjoy yourself until the right man comes along.
Know Him When You See Him and Become the ‘Picker” (Stop waiting for him to pick you!)
Start attracting and picking the men you’ll be happy with and learn how to instantly spot the rest (aka the bad, non-committal, only-interested-in-sex guys) so you don’t waste your time or make the same “picking” mistakes you’ve made in the past.
During this session you:
- Identify what will really make you happy – in a man and in a relationship – by taking your “list” to the next level. (Don’t worry, you DON’T have to settle! Just be clear.)
- Align your list of “must-haves” and negotiables with your true values, beliefs and essence so you pick only men who have potential to make a fantastic husband or life-partner.
- Define the man who will accept you as you are – so you never feel like finding love means you have to change. (When you pick the right guy, you can be sure that he loves you every moment, exactly how you are.)
Stop That Stinkin’ Thinkin’ That’s Getting in Your Way of Accepting Love
Something is getting between you and what you want in this area of your life…and it’s likely You and what you tell yourself and believe. Let’s find out what that is and stop the voices that are stopping and probably exhausting you.
During this session you:
- Clear away the cobwebs from your past and learn to successfully manage your “discard pile.” (Some things you believe about yourself and men just aren’t true and only make you scared, hopeless or paralyzed.)
- Become “gremlin-free” so you can go, enjoy the moment out, and just have fun. (Stop the pressure you put on yourself with all those things swimming in your head!)
- Acquire specific methods to navigate your way through the “gremlins” so you can begin clearly seeing yourself and men from a real, grown-up and positive perspective.
Making a Personal Plan: Where and How Will You Meet Him?
It’s time to get out, meet the right men and have some fun. I’m going to walk you through exactly how to stop wasting time, where to go to find a great guy, and how to make that connection so he asks you out.
During this session you:
- Learn Bobbi Palmer’s Secret Sauce that helps you stop wasting time and start seeing available men wherever you go. (When you do this, you will met men everywhere. I promise!)
- Discover how to spot, engage and attract the men you want to make a connection with – and get that date by the end of the conversation. (You will be in control, sister!)
- Peek inside the male mind and begin to understand how to actually become the woman the good guys want to adore, cherish and love for the long term.
Have Fun on Dates and Get Him to Ask You Out Again and Again
Enjoy yourself and feel comfortable as you meet men by learning how to date from a place of softness, femininity and compassion – which nearly guarantees your long-term dating and relationship success. (Basically, you’ll learn how to become irresistible to the RIGHT men.)
During this session you:
- Learn how to make deeper connections with men simply by being yourself. (It’s SO much easier than you think.)
- Learn how to flirt with class and style just like the lady you are so the right men take notice and want to know you.
- Master techniques to turn the “Meet Date” into a “First Date” by learning the hidden truths about how to project the secret signals and avoid the ones that turn him off. (This is so much easier than you think and will change your experience overnight.)
- Get tips and word-for-word scripts that cover how to respond to hard questions and what to say and not to say so you get what — and who — you need. (Tell me your challenge and I will give you your script!)
Should You Stay or Should You Go: Make Decisions Easily and Confidently
Think of it: When you know and love yourself and know exactly what you want and don’t want, you become an expert “picker” who can make solid, confident decisions about who you want see or don’t see; stay with or don’t stay with.
During this session you:
- Stop the feelings of self-doubt and confusion in their tracks by learning “my checklist” for deciding whether he’s a “keeper.” (No more purely emotional decisions…you’ll feel the control and self-assurance of knowing you’re making great decisions for yourself.)
- Determine whether it’s chemistry or true love, using a proven, effective method for making good, solid dating and relationship decisions.
- Learn exactly how to end it without pain or frustration (on your part or his) or to let him know you think he’s The One!
We are absolutely certain that you will receive incredible value.
My Promise to You
If you do not feel this is right for you and that it will not help you become a better, more confident dater, just tell my staff and we will refund every penny of your enrollment price within 30 days after the second training session — without hassle or hard feelings.
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A jumpstart call before the actual course begins, to ensure you’re prepared and have everything you need to be successful.
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6 training calls, 90 minutes each (one per session), PLUS instant access to replays of each call so you can build your audio library and review the material whenever you need to. (And this way, if you ever need to miss a session, you don’t actually miss anything!)
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6 open coaching calls, 90 minutes each, where you can ask me anything, LIVE – and I answer! Whether you need a cheerleader, guidance on something specific, or just to connect with the other women who are on the same journey, these open calls are essential as you apply the information and tools you’ve learned.
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A personalized, in-depth workbook that includes weekly assignments, forms, affirmations, tips and techniques.
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A private, closed, OPTIONAL Facebook group for your class, where you can connect with a community of women in the course. Participate as much or as little as you like; but be aware that even 6 months later, some of these groups are still going strong!
A LIVE MAN PANEL!
These are real men who (just like you) want to date, have some nice times and eventually fall in love.
You definitely don’t want to miss this!
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My eBook: 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love after 40: Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater. My personal story of journeying from Single to Married when I was 47. This book includes a multitude of tips and advice as well as exercises to help you stay on track.
- My yet-to-be-released First Date Handbook: How to Have a Relaxing and Fun First Date and Get a Second Date (If You Want One). Over 60 pages of tips and tricks to help you get focused, stay relaxed and dazzle your date…or dump him if you want to.
- My breakthrough audio series Lead Yourself to Love: Daily Practices to Help You Fearlessly Give AND Receive Love. A collection of audio experiences that help you tap into the Power of Your Imagination to connect deeply with your heart…and attract the man and relationship you so deserve!
Will you do me a small favor? Ask yourself this: Is finding a fantastic man to share your life worth an investment that is equal to one overnight outing with your girlfriends? You know Finding Him is something you’ve wanted to do for some time, and now you know how to do it. I hope it’s your time to take action, because time is marching on.
You CAN wake up every morning for the rest of your life next to the man who loves and adores you…knowing you will never have to go on one more first date…ever!
P.S. — Still not sure if this is for you? If you have even a little doubt about anything I’ve said here, will you please take a look at the raving testimonials I’ve received from women who have completed this course and worked with me? And feel free to ask me any question, because I understand how you might be feeling and want to help you make a decision that is right for you. But I hope you DO SOMETHING to bring you closer to meeting your special man who will love and adore you for the rest of your life.
Here are what other women are saying about working with Bobbi:
[6 months later:] Having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket.I started meeting some quality, fabulous men for the first time in years and eventually met the love of my life! Thank you very much, Bobbi. You are the Best Dating Coach Ever!
Bobbi opened me up to the possibility of getting out there and looking for a match. She had a wonderful story to tell about how she met her soul mate and convinced me it could happen for me too. Without Bobbi’s advice and guidance, I wouldn’t have found the wonderful man I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. Bobbi’s expert coaching and her compassionate interest in helping you achieve your ultimate dating goal is invaluable. I couldn’t give a higher recommendation.”