You Won’t Hate First Dates When You Follow These Tips

Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one. After all, it’s a first date that led me to my husband…the love of my life.

Watch this “Blab” video, co-hosted with my friend and colleague Sandy Weiner, CEO of Last First Date, and get our best tips on making every first date great. Learn how to get past the awkward moments with ease, how to get your date to open up, how to make sure you shine and show your best, real self…and more!

After watching this video you will have new tools to help you approach each first date feeling relaxed, optimistic and in control. Who knows…the next date may be the one that leads you to Your Special Man!

(Want more? After you watch the video, click here to find out what grownup men REALLY want when they go out with you on a date. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised!)

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Jeff December 12, 2016, 9:41 am

What if you live in a small town where there aren’t any single women. I would have to drive for at least three hours to attend a singles get together.

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- Bobbi Palmer December 12, 2016, 5:05 pm
  
  Can’t fix that for you, Jeff. Though it’s hard to believe there are NO single women. You only need one, right? Guess you need to try online dating and be willing to drive to meet your dates. There’s always a way. Bp
  
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John August 14, 2016, 2:07 am

Thank you so much for sharing these tips, I will definitely follow it.

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Frustrated August 6, 2016, 7:36 pm

I keep ending up in the “friend zone” after a first date. I’m trying to stay positive, but I could just cry! After lots of false starts, met a great guy online; we talked on the phone; met for coffee, he wanted to see me again but I had to take a two week break for a family wedding. He waited to see me and we met for a second time – nice long coffee date, but he expressed no interest in seeing me again – I did!

I have a huge following of male admirers who have no interest in me romantically! I have no desire to add to that list. I’ve read your book, done all the exercises and followed your advice, I have no idea what I’m doing wrong! Arghhh!

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- Bobbi Palmer August 11, 2016, 9:37 pm
  
  That DOES sound incredibly frustrating! It could be several things, but here are a couple articles that I think will help:
  https://datelikeagrownup.com/what-grownup-men-really-want-from-you-on-a-date/
  https://datelikeagrownup.com/how-smart-women-can-find-love-with-smart-men/
  Don’t give up, sister. We’ll figure it out.
  Hugs,
  Bp
  
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Optimistically Anxious August 4, 2016, 6:14 pm

This was great! I’m preparing for a first date and this is exactly what I needed. About 5 weeks ago I received a message from a really interesting guy. We exchanged a couple of messages on Match.com, moved to personal email, then the phone and finally a coffee meeting. Our conversation was easy, pleasant, positive and not even a little bit small talk. We both expressed the desire, I think pretty clearly, that we wanted to see each other again, but I didn’t hear from him right away. I’d almost given up when he emailed me. We exchanged a couple of very deep emails and he asked me out again through email, but I had to decline because I was leaving on a two week holiday that included my daughter’s wedding! He asked me to contact him when I was back, I did, we are in touch again about a first date. I’ve been on several “meets” and even a couple of first dates, but this is the first time it’s felt “grown up”, which has me putting a lot of weight on this. I really like this guy, mostly because when we’re together, or in communication we tend to be very much in the moment.

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