How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You


My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked about a future together. But there was one thing that constantly bothered her – and it was a BIG thing. […]

Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

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Posting photos on your online dating profile can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women who are dating later in life. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is the hardest part for many. It’s true that you’re putting yourself out there and […]

Why Older Men Seem So Boring and What You’re Missing If You Won’t Date Them

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For the past few weeks I’ve been running my Date Like a Grownup Challenge: Create a Profile that Makes You Shine Online. It has been an amazing experience. Over 1000 women are registered and learning step-by-step how to create an online profile that helps you stand out and expresses who you are in a grownup, attractive way. […]

Single? Avoid the Holiday Blues by Celebrating Yourself

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This time of year is spectacular. We get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with friends and family. It’s a time of reflection; and as we count our blessings, we may also think about what’s missing in our otherwise fulfilled lives. When I was single, the holidays put me in […]

Six Reasons to Pursue Love After 40


What if I told you that falling in love when you are 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? Better than when you are 18 and hot to trot, better than in your 20s when you didn’t know yourself from a hot rock or your 30s, when your baby and/or career clocks were […]

Why I’m Thankful That I’m Old

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Tomorrow is American Thanksgiving. I love this holiday because it’s an opportunity to spend time with family. To be truthful though, I hate this holiday because we ought not be celebrating. Instead, I think we should be taking the opportunity discuss how we can be better at showing fairness and respect to people who are […]

What 100+ Single Men Think and Feel About Cheating, Love and More

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The last few months I’ve been focused on men – who they are, what dating is like for them what they want , what they mean when they say or do certain things, what they think about your body ,why they disappear. As a matter of fact, last week we recorded a brand new man panel […]

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 2)


This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to share the man’s point of view. I hope you love what he says as much as I do. He’s a […]

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 1)

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This post is from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  He took his time to share his experience and point of view on what grownup men find attractive in women. I absolutely love what he’s sharing with you. Soak it up! And thank you Mr. Anonymous! As a woman, how do you determine if men find you attractive? […]

The Happy Truth About Men and Commitment (and George Clooney’s Wedding)


When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow?  Anything like this pop into your brain? A lot of women — especially women who are dating over 40 — believe that men are far more interested […]

The Secret to Learning About His Past Relationships (Without Ruining Yours)

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The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing their relationship history. Find out the details about his marriages and romances that didn’t work out, and you’ll get a good idea of whether he’s relationship-worthy, right? When we’re dating after 40, the men we’re meeting have decades of this history. They […]