When you are really ready to bring that spectacular, special man into your life…call me.
As your Date Like a Grownup Coach, I am singularly focused on YOU. I am here to guide and support you, and to be your trusted partner in your journey toward your well-deserved goals!
I’m told that my coaching is like “talking to your best girlfriend who happens to have her act together when it comes to men.” (That’s a quote directly from one of my spectacular clients.)
I help you Find Hope, and then I teach you how to Find Him.
I know that being an over 40 dater is especially challenging. I was there.
After 30 years of dating, I found the love of my life and married for the first time at age 47. The experience enriched my life beyond measurement, and I realized that I had to help other women do what I did: find love…and have fun looking!
I offer one-on-one personal coaching to a select number of clients.
We work together by phone or video conference. Our sessions are 50-minutes, and occur about 3 times each month. (Based on your very special needs, this may vary.)
I support, encourage, educate and guide you through self discovery, understanding men and learning how to be a smart, successful dater. And we have some fun along the way.
My proven “Find Hope and then Find Him” program is based on the steps I followed to find my spectacular husband. The 6-Step program guides you through:
Step 1: Who Am I? Falling in Love With Myself
Step 2: Who is He? Getting Past My List
Step 3: I’m Fantastic, So What’s the Damn Problem?
Step 4: Casting the Net: Where is He and How Do I Meet Him?
Step 5: From Rendezvous to Romance
Step 6: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Here is my most popular coaching program:
Revive Your Love Life – 4 month Private Coaching
This 4 month program gives you the support and tools you need to get out there feeling confident and in control,. You will learn how to get noticed by the right men, have fun while dating and pick the good guys who make you happy.
This is what leads you to the love you want and deserve. It’s how you rev back up after a relationship has ended, you have been dating unsuccessfully, or you’ve been on a break
This is way more than just getting you online or making a list of the qualities of the man you want. It’s about getting you ready mentally, emotionally and physically and supporting your commitment to the dating adventures and relationships that lie ahead for you.
Here is the support you get when you sign-up for my Revive Your Love Life program:
- 10 One-on-One Coaching 50-minute Sessions
- 2 hours of “DATE 911 Laser Coaching Support” to be used in 15-minute increments
- Unlimited email support for 4 months
- My eBook: Confessions of the World’s Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40
- Recordings of your sessions via email
- Online Dating Profile written/updated by me
This is for you if you’re ready to:
- See yourself for the spectacular woman you are
- Unstick yourself from limiting beliefs and old patterns that no longer serve you
- Get clarity on the man and the relationship you want and deserve
- Learn more about how men think and feel
- Successfully communicate with and attract the good guys
- Make good choices based on what will make you happy and help you reach your relationship goals
- Commit yourself to creating a fulfilling and positive love life
- Develop an authentic, loving and lasting relationship
Using my proven 6-Step System to Finding Hope and Then Finding Him, this one-on-one coaching allows us to fully explore the woman you are today, what you have to offer your partner, what will make you happy, and what is standing in your way of fulfilling relationships with men.
You will feel more confident and able to be your true self, feel more in control, become better at picking and attracting men, and be filled with hope and positive anticipation of the happiness and pride that lies ahead.
Our sessions will always include celebrating the fabulous woman that you are and defining the man and the relationship that will bring you long-term happiness.
If you would like, I will get you online or update your current online presence. Then, with my support, you will start you down the path of a new way of looking at yourself, men and dating.

For all one-on-one coaching packages your work with me requires your commitment to growing and learning. That means showing up mind, body and soul and completing assignments and practices.
This is about giving you a kick-start with a new profile and a new way to look at your online connections. Note that it is not designed to support you as you meet and date.
Spruce Up Your Online Love Life
This two-month package is for you if you are an experienced online dater who hasn’t had any action or are coming out of “hiatus” and ready to do it a different way to get better results. (Remember the definition of insanity: doing the same thing the same way and expecting different results.)
This is what leads you to the love you want and deserve. It’s how you rev back up after a relationship has ended, you have been dating unsuccessfully, or you’ve been on a break.
This is way more than just getting you online or making a list of the qualities of the man you want. It’s about getting you ready mentally, emotionally and physically and supporting your commitment to the dating adventures and relationships that lie ahead for you.
This package includes:
- Profile Makeover
- 5 one-hour One-on-One Coaching Sessions where I will:
- Review men’s profiles with you to help you spot the good guys and real red flags (Sometimes we are way too critical, girlfriend.)
- Help you write emails that get opened and responses that get dates (I will actually give you the words to write.)
- Teach you how to get the good guys to do things the way you want them done, without turning them off (and chase away the “net-casters”)
- Decipher emails you receive to help you spot the keepers, stop wasting your time on the disinterested, and stop judging with your over-critical eye and taking things personally
This is about giving you a kick-start with a new profile and a new way to look at your online connections. Note that it is not designed to support you as you meet and date.
For my part, I am 100% committed to guiding you expertly and safely in your movement toward your goal of dating like grownup. I will create a structure for your progress, keep you on track and accountable, and provide ongoing instruction, and always give you my full support and loving kindness.
Here is how to get started and get your questions answered.
Call me 562.608.8685 or email me and let’s talk further about my programs and which may be right for you. You may qualify for my 45-minute Get Acquainted session.
Let’s get you on your own path to becoming a happy and successful dater. (There are great men out there waiting for you!)
You have my unconditional love and support,
P.S.: I realize that, for some, my personalized coaching is not affordable, or is not your preferred way to move forward in your search for love. If so, I suggest you check out my 6-week Telecourse Mastering the Mystery of Meeting Men After 40. I want to offer you as many ways as possible to help you reach your dating and relationship goals.


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