Sex

A Simple Tip to Help You Look Your Best in Online Dating Photos

There is tons of proof that being online is a great way to meet your mate. I met my husband online (on match.com) and many of the women I support have met their guys online.… read the full post...

One Surprising Way Men Help Us While Hurting Us

It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn’t real; how there’s no such thing as… read the full post...

[Video] How Do I Tell Him I Have Herpes?

If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something about your past or your present you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. As I talked about in… read the full post...

Let’s Get Physical… or Should We?

Wanna hear your body talk? If the idea of having sex in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond is intimidating, you are not alone. I get a lot of questions about the whats and hows… read the full post...

How to Magnetize the Men You Like: Top Tips [Video]

Since you all can’t all attend my upcoming Live Event “The Art of Magnetizing Men”, I wanted to share my #1 Top Tip for being a midlife man magnet. Then I figured: why not invite… read the full post...

Don’t Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the… read the full post...

Sex after 40… You Bet it Can it Be Hot

Ladies, are you looking for love and can’t wait to hop into bed with your new guy? Think of it: slowly undressing…. eyes locked…. savoring each other’s bodies… lust so intense that you both might… read the full post...

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid of Being Naked in Front of Him

Are you excited about the notion of hopping into bed with your new guy? Slowly undressing…eyes locked…savoring each other’s bodies…lust so intense that you both might explode… …or does the thought of it make you… read the full post...

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… read the full post...

Why Every Single Woman Over 40 Should Use a Vibrator

Masturbation. There…I said it. The “Big M.” I don’t generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the time has come to chat about the role sex – or lack thereof – plays… read the full post...