When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow? Does anything like this pop…
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Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it…
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Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face…
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Can you define your dating rules and boundaries? If your answer is no or if you’re not sure, STOP right now and take 7 minutes to read this. Because if you want to stay safe…if…
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No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as…
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Can I make a few assumptions? If you’re reading this you are most likely a woman over 40, single and looking. You are probably dating, or hoping to. You are either nearing menopause, in menopause…
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It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn’t real; how there’s no such thing as…
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If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something that you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. How do I tell him I have herpes is one…
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Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about…
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Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the…
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