Sex

6 Reasons to Pursue Love After 40

What if I told you that falling in love when you are 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? Better than when you are 18 and hot to trot, better than in your… read the full post...

How long should I wait to have sex?

Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship, but get intimate too soon and the experience can wreak havoc on your emotions and mess up an otherwise budding relationship. Hence, so many of us want to… read the full post...

When’s The Right Time to Be Exclusive With Him? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… read the full post...

How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You (and Save Your Relationship!)

My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked… read the full post...

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 2)

This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to… read the full post...

The Happy Truth About Men and Commitment (and George Clooney’s Wedding)

When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow?  Anything like this pop into your… read the full post...

Are You Attracting Cads and Pingers? (FemiType #6: The Sexpot)

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it… read the full post...

Talking About Money When Dating or in a New Relationship

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face… read the full post...

4 Ways to Get His Attention Online or Out and About

No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as… read the full post...

Midlife Sex: A Reality Check

Can I make a few assumptions? If you’re reading this you are most likely a woman over 40, single and looking. You are probably dating, or hoping to. You are either nearing menopause, in menopause… read the full post...