Meeting Men

Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… read the full post…

Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and Jerks How to Stop NOW!

Have you ever asked yourself ‘why do I keep attracting narcissists and jerky men’? Well, if you are you a smart, kind, self-reliant and successful woman with a smattering of the usual insecurities…then you’re a… read the full post…

Why You’re Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years. When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating.  And most fall into three relationship categories: Women… read the full post…

Dateless During the Holidays: Tis the Season for Breakups and Bad Dates

Okay, let’s say it like it is: Being dateless for the holidays can suck. It can be a really funky time for single gals. At the same time your angst over being dateless for New Years Eve… read the full post…

Key #3 to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40: Shed Your Stuff

This is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him after 40. I know that you are a fabulous, smart accomplished woman who has created a… read the full post…

6 Ways to Dump Your Dude-ness and Awaken Your Femininity

You know how I’m always encouraging (ok nagging) you to embrace your femininity when you are with men? The female, womanly part of us (not just our vaginas, though they are certainly important) is THE… read the full post…

The Secret to Learning About His Past Relationships (Without Ruining Yours)

The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing their relationship history. Find out the details about his marriages and romances that didn’t work out, and you’ll get a good idea… read the full post…

mature couple on date

The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… read the full post…

Where are the Good Single Men over 40?

You’ve probably asked at some point: Where are the good single men?  I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. The answer is they are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over… read the full post…

How to Handle Your Baggage When Dating after 40

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… read the full post…

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