Understanding Men

What DO Men Want from You? This Man Tells You.

I’ve learned a lot about what men want in my almost 10 years of helping women find love after 40. (As always, I’m only talking about mature, high-integrity, relationship-minded men. We don’t care about any… read the full post…

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Here is a Good Man You Want to Date

We have man-fans here at Date Like a Grownup. And, for the most part, they represent the type of good man you want to date and have relationships with. They are curious about what women… read the full post…

NoFear of Harvey Weinstein and other predators - lean INTO love!

Fu*k Harvey Weinstein: Loving Fearlessly is Our Best Revenge

Let’s talk about the multiple big fat ugly-ass elephants in the room. Harvey Weinstein, Matt Lauer, multiple big cheeses and CEOs…they’re popping up like a sickening game of whack-a-mole. Finally we are whacking the shit… read the full post…

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The Truth About What Single Men Want from Grownup Women

OK, Ladies, are you ready to truly understand what single men want from grownup women like you? Can you handle the truth? Of course you can. You are an empathetic woman. You know that understanding… read the full post…

Attract Smart Men

Two Things Smart Women Do to Attract Smart Men

If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who wants to attract smart men, but you think men don’t want to date you because of your smarts…think again. While it’s true that some men prefer less “challenging”… read the full post…

Attract Good Men

Attract Good Men: Show You Need Them

Needy women attract good men.  Low-maintenance women attract jerks…or no men at all. Is this counter to what you’ve always thought? Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he’d… read the full post…

Dating Profile Mistakes

5 DEAL BREAKER Online Dating Profile Mistakes!

Are you making online dating profile mistakes that scare men away? Not on purpose of course, but here are some signs you might be: Your inbox is empty. You’re only being contacted by couch potatoes,… read the full post…

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Meeting New Single Men: Don’t Blow It By Doing This

It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations,… read the full post…

Happy middle aged couple

Hey…Let’s All Celebrate DEpendence Day!

This week my country celebrates its Independence Day and it makes me think…we should celebrate DEpendence Day! How do you feel about that? Are you afraid of depending on a man? For so many women, dependence… read the full post…

Delicious Life Lessons I Learned from My Father

Another Father’s Day without my Dad, who left us in 2012. He was a good man, my Pop. His last several years were difficult, filled with numerous medical issues and a wife who was unable to deal… read the full post…