Communication

Dating to Find Love after 40: The Slower Road CAN Be Quicker

It’s a fact: when you are dating to find love, especially later in life, taking the slower road may be the best AND the quickest path. I admit that I love when I’m proven right.… read the full post…

Good Sex Aging Couple

Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… read the full post…

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Ready to Date Exclusively But He’s Not? Here’s What to Do.

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… read the full post…

Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… read the full post…

Why Does He Keep Disappearing and Reappearing?

So…your man gets in touch and stops. And keeps doing it. Why does he keep disappearing and reappearing? It’s frustrating, confusing and maddening, isn’t it? Well, sister, there’s a good chance you’re being “Pinged” and… read the full post…

How Do I Break Up with Him Without Drama and Bad Feelings?

Let’s say you’ve dated someone for a month or a few months and you’ve decided to break up with him. You’ve given it your best shot, which means you’ve kept your mind open, focused on… read the full post…

5 Reasons To Talk About Donald Trump on a First Date

You’ve probably heard that it’s not good to talk about religion or politics on a first date. Definitely don’t bring up Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton. Or which party you hope will control Congress. Or… read the full post…

How Do You Answer His Question When It Feels Rude or Scary?

When you’re dating and trying to get to know one another, there’s a good chance he’s going to ask you all kinds of questions. How do you answer his question that seems rude, or that… read the full post…

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15 Ways to Get a Second Date…Like a Grownup

He’s a man you want to know better.  How do you make this first date the best time possible and turn it into a second date? Here’s exactly how: Dazzle him. Dazzling the right man is actually… read the full post…

Is He Into Me? Answering the $1M Question

Dating a man and wondering ‘is he into me?’ Here are four very clear signals to help you KNOW if you are on his radar as a potential girlfriend.