How to Spot the Bad Guys and Chase Them Away

Do you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t care what you want and need? I’m going to assume the answer is “no.” So I have to ask: Why would you
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The Simple Secret You’re Missing in Your Search for Love

Lately I’ve come upon what I think is one of the biggest ironies of all: Good single men want women just like you…yet you’re not yourself when you’re around them. Many fears stand in the
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A Simple Truth That Will Free You From Fears About Dating

What are your fears around dating and looking for your mate? I had tons of things I was afraid of when I was dating. Mostly, I dreaded rejection with what felt like primal fear. With
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3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:
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Why It Can Be a Good Thing When He Goes Cave-bound

Last week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just often enough
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Dating the (Somewhat) Disappearing Man

Has the man you’re dating disappeared…but only sort of? There’s a good chance you’re being Pinged. Whether you’re 20 or 50, you probably have had a pinger in your life. Maybe he’s still with you.
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Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him

It’s pathetic how easily I can find myself acting like the insecure kid I was in high school.  These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially
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Please Be Kind to Frogs

Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss
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How to Make Friends with Rejection

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:
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Do You Actually Know When You’re Being Rejected?

Rejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a
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Why You Should Be Happy When a Man Rejects You – Part Two

I know you’ve been waiting with bated breath!  As promised, what follows is my seriously humiliating story of falling for the wrong man and holding on for dear life.  I’m quite sure I’ll feel fantastic
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Why You Should Be Happy When a Man Rejects You – Part One

This week I got an email from a friend, Bethany. Bethany is a seriously impressive woman. She is a bright and successful entrepreneur, she’s beautiful, sincere, generous, and has ginormous energy that (honestly) exhausts me.
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