Online Rejection: There’s No Such Thing!

This is one skill I want you to master: Rejecting online rejection. Learning to accept rejection gracefully, with as few “dings” to your self-esteem as possible, is key  to finding your true love. As a
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What to Do When Rejection Rears Its Ugly Head

In the past couple weeks I’ve had two spectacular clients realize they’re falling in love with the men they are dating. I’m thrilled for them because each of their guys is one of The Good
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Horrible Dates in the Holiday Season: Here’s Why

I’ve had several clients tell me recently that they feel like they’re “stalling out” when it comes to dating and relationships. They are hearing a lot of “I’ll call you” and never getting a call. 
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Key #1 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Me First

This is the first in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M – Me and Me first. A – Assess your list. S
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Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him?

I learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside. Did you know that? I’m 52 years old, and
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Time to Shed Your Dread of Rejection

What are you doing this coming weekend? Are you getting out to have some fun? Are you going somewhere to be around people and practice your connection skills? Are you hopping online and writing emails
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What’s the Stuff Standing Between You and That Good Man?

What layers of “stuff” are creating a barrier between you and your dream of sharing your life with a good man? As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I see this all
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Four Reasons Why You May Be Chronically Single

If you are a woman over 40, single and looking for love, I think I know your story. It goes something like this: You’ve been single longer than planned. The men you meet – when
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Men are People Too

I have sympathy for men. When it comes to dating, they have it really hard. Do you already know this? I think having compassion for the men you meet is an important part of dating
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Not Feeling Special to Him? It’s Time to Move On.

Ever found yourself wondering “Is he into me?” or “Should I move on?” Check out this email exchange I recently shared with a blog reader. Dear Bobbi, Thank you.  Your dating tips are helpful and
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The Truth about Single Men and Strong Women

Are you a single woman over 40 who is smart, independent and thinking there are no good men out there? I hope you don’t mind my saying this: you are w-r-o-n-g. As a dating and
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Let’s Agree to Face Our Fear

Do you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and
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