First Date

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… read the full post...

What You Should Know About Texting and Dating If You’re a Grownup

Over the past few years it seems that almost every dating dilemma I hear from my coaching clients and girlfriends has something to do with the texting. Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year… read the full post...

What Turns Men On About Moms, Caretakers and Workaholics

Do you feel stuck in some definition of yourself that you think renders you undatable or uninteresting to men? I received a comment in response to my blog post Just Be Yourself And You Will Easily Attract The Right Man that was… read the full post...

The Secret to Learning About His Past Relationships (Without Ruining Yours)

The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing their relationship history. Find out the details about his marriages and romances that didn’t work out, and you’ll get a good idea… read the full post...

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The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… read the full post...

Date Like a Grownup

How Dating Like a Man Will Make You Happier

Emotional exhaustion. Hopelessness. Hating men and/or yourself. That’s what dating the wrong way can do to women. You get to feeling like it’s just not worth all the nonsense, hurt and disappointment. Why bother? You have a pretty… read the full post...

What Grownup Men Really Want From You On a Date

This might shock you:  The intellectual connection and witty repartee that so many of us over 40, looking for love, single women say we want and MUST HAVE is not anywhere near the top of… read the full post...

How to Handle Your Baggage When Dating after 40

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… read the full post...

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Are You Waiting for Some Fantasy Man? (FemiType #4: The Wow-Me Woman)

Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives without even knowing it. We do it by behaving in ways that, until pointed out by someone else, are a complete mystery. Finally… read the full post...

Why Men Disappear After a Few Dates

He asks you out, once, twice even three times…and then…POOF! He disappears. You thought things were going well and now you’re confused. This isn’t the first time and you’re wondering why they keep leaving! Here… read the full post...

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