First Date

What Turns Men On About Moms, Caretakers and Workaholics

Do you feel stuck in some definition of yourself that you think renders you undatable or uninteresting to men? I received a comment in response to my blog post Just Be Yourself And You Will Easily Attract The Right Man that was… read the full post...

How to Spot Men Who Will Waste Your Time or Break Your Heart

So you’re dating a guy, you really dig him and you think he adores you. Then, boom. He ends it. So, as a woman, even one dating after 40, what do you do? You dwell, you… read the full post...

The Slower Road to Love CAN Get You There Quicker (and Better)

I love it when I’m proven to be right. Especially when it comes to the things I teach, encourage and nag you to do in order to find love. When it comes to dating, here… read the full post...

The Secret to Learning About His Past Relationships (Without Ruining Yours)

The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing their relationship history. Find out the details about his marriages and romances that didn’t work out, and you’ll get a good idea… read the full post...

Couple on a date

The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to last week’s post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating… read the full post...

Date Like a Grownup

How Dating Like a Man Will Make You Happier

Emotional exhaustion. Hopelessness. Hating men and/or yourself. That’s what dating the wrong way can do to women. You get to feeling like it’s just not worth all the nonsense, hurt and disappointment. Why bother? You have a pretty… read the full post...

What Grownup Men Really Want From You On a Date

This might shock you:  The intellectual connection and witty repartee that so many of us over 40, looking for love, single women say we want and MUST HAVE is not anywhere near the top of… read the full post...

The #1 Would-Be Relationship Killer for Daters over 40

If you are over 40, you have baggage. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health problem…these are just some of the common products of a rich and… read the full post...

happy woman with man she met online dating

Are You Waiting for Some Fantasy Man? (FemiType #4: The Wow-Me Woman)

Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives without even knowing it. We do it by behaving in ways that, until pointed out by someone else, are a complete mystery. Finally… read the full post...

Why Men Disappear After a Few Dates

He asks you out, once, twice even three times…and then…POOF! He disappears. You thought things were going well and now you’re confused. This isn’t the first time and you’re wondering why they keep leaving! Here… read the full post...