Dating after 40

10 Mini-Resolutions to Attract More Men You Want To Date

You want to attract more men, right? The right men? It’s both an art and a science. It’s about making some small adjustments, trying new things and just plain getting out of your rut. (And… read the full post...

Is Your Negative Self Talk Killing Your Love Life?

It’s another new year. I am not a big believer in new year’s resolutions. Are you? For me, they induce guilt and remorse when I don’t keep them. But I am a huge believer in new… read the full post...

Coping with Critics: How to Use Criticism to Your Advantage

Last week I was deluged with emails and blog comments from a very mean someone. My work, my personality and even my body were on the list of cruel insults. How do I handle coping with… read the full post...

Dating after divorce

Dating After Divorce: 9 Tips to Make it an Adventure and a Success

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… read the full post...

Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… read the full post...

The #1 One Way to Find Love After 40 – Start with Yourself, Sister

Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I… read the full post...

10 Life Changing Vacations for Singles over 40

Bobbi here. Have you ever wanted to take a vacation but had no one to go with? Well, I hooked up with a travel company to give you these 10 life changing vacations for singles… read the full post...

5 Reasons To Talk About Donald Trump on a First Date

You’ve probably heard that it’s not good to talk about religion or politics on a first date. Definitely don’t bring up Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton. Or which party you hope will control Congress. Or… read the full post...

My Very Personal Imperfectly Perfect over 40 Love Story

Here are 4 words that, years ago, I never thought I would hear: “Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary!” Yep, Larry and I celebrated our over 40 Love Story 10th wedding anniversary Friday evening with a low-key… read the full post...