Starting Over Single

Attract Good Men

Attract Good Men: Show You Need Them

Needy women attract good men.  Low-maintenance women attract jerks…or no men at all. Is this counter to what you’ve always thought? Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he’d… read the full post…

Meet Single Men

How to Meet Single Men Everywhere

“Bobbi, how do I meet single men? Where are all the good, single men –  you know, the ones I WANT to date?” I get asked this question daily and I always want to laugh.… read the full post…

Bobbi Palmer Dating Coach for Women over 40

For Women Dating after 40

Hey…that’s ME! I was recently interviewed by the website DatingAdvice.com about how I support women dating after 40. I know you have very special needs and unique challenges. Like I said during my interview: Grownups have a… read the full post…

Scared of Men or Dating? Check Out My RANT!

Last night was my Grownup Girls’ Night Out webcast. I’ve been doing this live for about 2 1/2 years now. Every month I get online with hundreds of women and coach/train on a new topic… read the full post…

Find Love After 40

6 Compelling Reasons to Find Love After 40

What if I told you that falling in love when you’re 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? When you find love after 40 it is eons better than when you are 18… read the full post…

Mature couple first date second date

Meeting New Single Men: Don’t Blow It By Doing This

It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations,… read the full post…

Senior love - Couple

A Senior Love Story You Just Can’t Miss

Today the New York Times published an article about an epic senior love story. I’m still smiling from reading this beautiful story of love and marriage. I wanted to be sure you didn’t miss it.… read the full post…

Happy middle aged couple

Hey…Let’s All Celebrate DEpendence Day!

This week my country celebrates its Independence Day and it makes me think…we should celebrate DEpendence Day! How do you feel about that? Are you afraid of depending on a man? For so many women, dependence… read the full post…

Good Sex Aging Couple

Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… read the full post…

Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… read the full post…