Chemistry

Are “Friends with Benefits” Ruining Your Love Life?

Do you have friends with benefits? In other words, a sexual relationship with someone you have no intention of ever committing to? Or maybe they have no intention of ever committing to you? It may… read the full post…

Should I Trust My Intuition About Men

Using Dating Mindfulness to Create Connection and Chemistry

Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for… read the full post…

Dating to Find Love after 40: The Slower Road CAN Be Quicker

It’s a fact: when you are dating to find love, especially later in life, taking the slower road may be the best AND the quickest path. I admit that I love when I’m proven right.… read the full post…

How to Get Over Your Ex, Heal Your Broken Heart and Find a Better Man

If you are a woman dating after 40, it’s likely you had at least a few breakups that have left you feeling broken hearted. So…how DO you get over your ex? Maybe you’re going through a… read the full post…

Where are the Good Single Men over 40?

You’ve probably asked at some point: Where are the good single men?  I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. The answer is they are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over… read the full post…

Are You Attracting Cads and Pingers? (FemiType #6: The Sexpot)

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it… read the full post…

Are You Waiting for Some Fantasy Man? (FemiType #4: The Wow-Me Woman)

Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives as they wait for some fantasy man. We usually don’t even know we’re doing it. Finally having this pointed out to me in… read the full post…

How to Improve Your Love Life By Setting Dating and Relationship Rules

Are you out there dating or in a relationship and simply taking things as they come? Or are you thoughtfully setting some rules and boundaries; taking personal responsibility for your experiences and outcomes? Have you ever… read the full post…

Midlife Sex: A Reality Check

Can I make a few assumptions? If you’re reading this you are most likely a woman over 40, single and looking. You are probably dating, or hoping to. You are either nearing menopause, in menopause… read the full post…

A Quality Man

[Video] How Do I Get Myself to Think Nice Guys Are Hot?

Last weekend was my live event in Los Angeles: Mastering the Art of Magnetizing Men. During this two-day event I gave women tons of advice and step-by-step tips to help them attract quality men so… read the full post…

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