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Dating after divorce

Dating After Divorce: 9 Tips to Make it an Adventure and a Success

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… read the full post…

Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… read the full post…

You Won’t Hate First Dates When You Follow These Tips

Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one.… read the full post…

10 Tiny Tweaks That Will Revive Your Dating Life

Not dating at all? Not feeling like it? Slogging through it like some job you have to do? Time to revive your dating life! If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always… read the full post…

Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… read the full post…

How Do I Know When to Break Up With Him?

When you’re dating someone and start noticing things going wrong, how do you know whether it’s time to break up with him? I see so many potential relationships go bad for so many trivial reasons. Read on to get some guidance… read the full post…

Why You’re Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years. When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating.  And most fall into three relationship categories: Women… read the full post…

Tips for a Happier YOU!

I’m actually in Oakland Hills, CA, (not my usual Long Beach) where I’m hosting a two-day retreat for the graduates of my Love Program. I have to say that I love my Love Program. For… read the full post…

How to Get Over Your Ex, Heal Your Broken Heart and Find a Better Man

If you are a woman dating after 40, it’s likely you had at least a few breakups that have left you feeling broken hearted. So…how DO you get over your ex? Maybe you’re going through a… read the full post…

woman on laptop in central park

Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting photos on your online dating profile can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women who are dating later in life. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge,… read the full post…