Being Your Best

Fashion Flash Monday: Summertime Tips for Women after 40

Tips and Advice for Women Dating after 40 If finding love with an adult, interesting, committed man is on your dream list, consider opening your mind to see him as such. If you like him,… read the full post...

Smiling beautiful midlife woman

Single? Avoid the Holiday Blues by Celebrating Yourself

This time of year is spectacular. We get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with friends and family. It’s a time of reflection; and as we count our blessings, we… read the full post...

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 2)

This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to… read the full post...

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The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to last week’s post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating… read the full post...

NOT Knowing May Be Key to Finding & Keeping Love after 40

The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives. ~ Byron Katie At this age many of us walk around with the “I know” mind. “Yeah, yeah,… read the full post...

How a Woman Just Like You Found Love at 59

“Mature love is not Tom Cruise jumping on a couch.” Don’t you just love that? That is a quote from Lynn, a 59 year old professional woman who recently married her forever guy. Lynn was… read the full post...

How Your Dating Can Help Your Daughters

Happy Mother’s Day! In my mind, being a great Mother is the most difficult and most important job on Earth. Admittedly, I don’t know from personal experience, which is probably why I have such admiration… read the full post...

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Dish with Me & Mrs. D. – Hear My Horrible Dating Mistakes and More

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the… read the full post...

Single Over 40? Can You Embrace Your Real Power?

Yesterday was my granddaughter’s 13th birthday. She doesn’t live near us and it literally makes me cry that I can’t be there and be a bigger part of her life. She’s very special:  super smart,… read the full post...

Looking Good & Feeling Good-Some Tips

I read something interesting about men this week: In making a first impression with men, women have about 15 minutes. Women, on the other hand, take about an hour to make up their minds about… read the full post...