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Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… read the full post…

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Ready to Date Exclusively But He’s Not? Here’s What to Do.

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… read the full post…

Coping with Critics: How to Use Criticism to Your Advantage

Last week I was deluged with emails and blog comments from a very mean someone. My work, my personality and even my body were on the list of cruel insults. How do I handle coping with… read the full post…

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Dating After Divorce: 9 Tips to Make it an Adventure and a Success

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… read the full post…

Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… read the full post…

You Won’t Hate First Dates When You Follow These Tips

Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one.… read the full post…

10 Tiny Tweaks That Will Revive Your Dating Life

Not dating at all? Not feeling like it? Slogging through it like some job you have to do? Time to revive your dating life! If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always… read the full post…

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Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… read the full post…

How Do I Know When to Break Up With Him?

When you’re dating someone and start noticing things going wrong, how do you know whether it’s time to break up with him? I see so many potential relationships go bad for so many trivial reasons. Read on to get some guidance… read the full post…

Why You’re Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years. When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating.  And most fall into three relationship categories: Women… read the full post…