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Ready to Date Exclusively But He’s Not? Here’s What to Do.

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… read the full post...

Coping with Critics: How to Use Criticism to Your Advantage

Last week I was deluged with emails and blog comments from a very mean someone. My work, my personality and even my body were on the list of cruel insults. How do I handle coping with… read the full post...

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Dating After Divorce: 9 Tips to Make it an Adventure and a Success

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… read the full post...

Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… read the full post...

The #1 One Way to Find Love After 40 – Start with Yourself, Sister

Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I… read the full post...

My Very Personal Imperfectly Perfect over 40 Love Story

Here are 4 words that, years ago, I never thought I would hear: “Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary!” Yep, Larry and I celebrated our over 40 Love Story 10th wedding anniversary Friday evening with a low-key… read the full post...

Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… read the full post...

Why You’re Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years. When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating.  And most fall into three relationship categories: Women… read the full post...

Tips for a Happier YOU!

I’m actually in Oakland Hills, CA, (not my usual Long Beach) where I’m hosting a two-day retreat for the graduates of my Love Program. I have to say that I love my Love Program. For… read the full post...

How to Get Over Your Ex, Heal Your Broken Heart and Find a Better Man

If you are a woman dating after 40, it’s likely you had at least a few breakups that have left you feeling broken hearted. So…how DO you get over your ex? Maybe you’re going through a… read the full post...