Welcome! Feel free to stop here and rest.
I’m so glad you’re here. And I’m glad to be here too. I know this blog-o-mine will morph and transform as I learn and continue to experience my wonderful life. I invite you to join me for this journey.
My sincere hope is that you will learn here, you will laugh and cry here, you’ll find hope and understanding, you’ll find great value in yourself, and you’ll find friends here. I know I will.
You’ll get to know me as we go along; maybe even more than you would like. For now, here is a synopsis of me:
I’m a 50 year old (gasp!), joyfully married, open-minded, Jewish, kinda short, quite sassy, deeply compassionate, ebullient, critical thinking, generally optimistic, ex-corporate-manager-now-coach-and-consultant who helps grown-up women find love and romance in grown-up ways.
I was 47 when I found the love of my life and married for the first time. With his strength, compassion, and enormous capacity to love and be loved, Larry is the type of man I wish every woman could have in her life. I had a full and meaningful life before I met him. I had accomplished a lot and was proud that I did that on my own. My life was filled with smart, beautiful, accomplished, sensitive women who then and now hold and comfort my heart. Now I have it all.
So today, I help other women complete the circle as I have. You are strong, independent, and kind, with many achievements in your life. Your life is full, but I hope you’ll give me the chance to show you that you can top it off with a delightful relationship while enjoying (not just enduring) the journey along the way.
Gotta go. Be good to yourself.
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Naja Hayward
February 25, 2009
What a wonderful beginning to what I see will be quite a community of love, support, encouragement, and fun lessons in love…
Looking forward to all the wisdom you have to share about finding, and keeping the love of your life!
Thanks, Bobbi!
bridgetloves
February 25, 2009
Oh I love it- how lovely and I can’t wait to learn to date like a grownup