If you are a magnificent woman over forty, who is still hoping to meet the man of your dreams… If you're tired of disappointing dates, and feeling like it’s too late or too difficult… Read on, because you’re about to discover…
How to Find the Man You Desire, Dream of, and Deserve -- Just By Being YOURSELF
Introducing the brand new ebook by dating and relationship expert Bobbi Palmer:
Confessions of the World's Worst Dater:
Her 7 Secrets to Finally
Finding Love After 40
Dear Friend,
You have a successful career, a lovely and loyal circle of friends, freedom to travel and do as you please, and lots of nice things. Some might say you’ve got it all. You’ve probably said it yourself.
Let’s face it; you have a lot to celebrate about your life, your accomplishments, and yourself. Get excited about it. You deserve it!
But the real truth is, there are times when all that you have just doesn’t seem to be enough. . When you think that sharing the great life you’ve created for yourself with someone you love – and who loves you – could take your life to a whole new level of fulfillment and joy.
But you can’t share it, because he’s not in your life.
How do you feel in those moments?
- Resigned?
- Sad?
- Not in control?
- Frustrated?
- Like a teenager?
- Not as strong as you thought you were?
- Even unlovable?
Do you ever think that it might just be too late for you to discover real llove that you will nourish you for the rest of your life?
What if you could find a man who...
- thinks you are delightful, beautiful, and brilliant
- boasts to his friends about your successes and supports you in all you do
- makes you feel safe
- gives you permission to soften, and to be the complex woman that you are
- empowers you to be not just your true self, but your best self
And what if his unconditional love lets you feel fearless in loving him?
Would you be willing to make some slight
shifts and learn some new things to find
that man?
What if I offered you a ton of information and a process that will help you make these shifts, which are so subtle, but will allow you to create the space you need to get this man into your life?
Making a change may not be easy. You’ll need to suspend some of the belief systems that brought you to where you are now, and start thinking and acting in some new ways, in order to attract this ideal man into your life.
But that’s OK, because I’m not really asking you to change, as much as I’m asking you to be more of who you really are.
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You’re not a princess, and you’re not looking for a knight on a white horse. You’re a smart, thoughtful woman looking for a genuine, grown-up man who will bring to the table all of the things that create and support a meaningful, nurturing, grown-up adult relationship.
You see, YOU can summon the power within to create big changes in your romantic life.
YOU really can find the man who will complement and brighten your world even more…
...and have fun doing it!
Confessions of the World's Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40 is an ebook about wonderful possibilities and exhilarating outcomes.
Like me, maybe you’ve had bad experiences that support your negative thoughts, and feelings of fatefulness, and fear. You also probably have a long list of things you tell yourself about men – and about yourself – that keeps you from showing your authentic self when you date. We all create ways to protect and shield ourselves from the inevitable hurt and disappointment that comes with putting ourselves out there and daring to be hopeful... Bobbi Palmer, Author of Confessions of the World's Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40 |
It’s about knowing and believing:
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1. It’s not too late. 2. All the good men are not taken. 3. You don't have to repeat your mistakes of the past. 4. Your success in dating and romance is entirely within your control. |
Now…here’s the thing my friends told me not to tell you: you already know these things and have these qualities! You see, they think if I tell you this that you’ll decide you don't need this ebook. But I’ll take that chance because I want you to know that the information I share isn't earth-shattering and it doesn’t really require monumental life changes…when you have someone to guide you through it.
The truth is that your wealth of life experiences…the ones that have made you the strong and fantastic woman that you are...have already prepared you to be a successful dater who will make good choices and find a good man to spend your life with.
In my ebook, I show you how to get more in tune with the experiences that make up your true inner self--so you can make some bold shifts and start allowing new possibilities that will direct you to the kind of relationship you are really after!
- My own process (including all the painful mistakes!), as an aid to let you know that “Love After 40” is a real and fabulous possibility for you
- My 3 epiphanies that changed my life and - once you embrace them - will change yours
- The one thing men REALLY WANT that strong, independent women DON’T GIVE THEM!
- How your self-protection has actually become your biggest enemy
- What I learned from my sadistic therapist, and how grateful I am every day for her torture
- How to happily date and find your special man (special exercises included!)
- Why your intuition isn’t always your best friend
- How your fantastic friendships and family relationships have prepared you perfectly for a meaningful romance
- Why the search for your “soul mate” has more to do with your soul than his
- Why it’s so good that you’re the one with the problem
- Why his impression of you holds little meaning
- How to HAVE FUN while searching for your man (this is the key to your success!)
- How the search for pleasure can lead you completely astray
- Why looking “interested” isn’t the same as looking desperate
- Why even the worst case scenario is an opportunity for positive outcomes (yes, I believe in silver linings)
- News flash: you have ultimate control over your romantic outcomes
And here’s a bonus!
My ebook also includes a section called 17 MORE Things That Will Help You Confidently and Happily Meet Your Mate.
These aren’t your run-of-the-mill “sign up for a pottery class” tips ladies. You’ll find some amazing nuggets of usable wisdom in this chapter!
As you can see, I cover a lot of important ground here. And, did you notice? It’s all about YOU!
It’s about helping you become your best and true self.
It’s about realizing and believing that the qualities you gained from your life experience: loving kindness, self awareness, self respect, wisdom, desire, fortitude, and the ability to love are what you need to start your happy journey on the way to meet your special man and life mate.
Once you start reading it and understand how powerful you are in this process, you will want to continue learning how to apply your fabulous self to finding the love of your life, or at least take pleasure in the search.
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Hey, I Know This Because I’ve Already Been Down Your Road!
I dated for 30 years before I got married to the genuine man of my dreams at 47. 30 years!
Why so long? Because, frankly, I was pretty darn happy – at least that’s what I told myself. I had a wonderful life with everything…but intimacy. I had a successful career that afforded me a great home and nice things; friends who I loved, trusted and enjoyed; total freedom; exciting travel… and the list goes on…
Over those years I met a lot (a lot!) of men; and I met them every way possible. There were countless first dates, and a handful of relationships – mostly short and all eventual duds. There were nice men along the way, but no one who I would have called The One.
There were certainly times when I wondered out loud if I would ever find him, or if he even existed for me. And there were other times I convinced myself that I just didn’t need a man to be happy.
But as everyone around me was finding love, I couldn't help but wonder what was wrong with me? It seemed that this was the one thing in my life I just couldn't decipher. I just couldn’t get the man-thing right!

I finally committed to doing what I needed to do to find love. I learned a lot about men, about dating, and particularly about myself. I came to some harsh realizations that I will share with you in this ebook. Your eyes will become open to some pretty mind-blowing facts; facts that may be hard to face at first –as they were for me. But once you face them, and truly embrace them, you’ll be very thankful and very happy.
Today my life is amazing because of my education, experiences, and epiphanies…and the new course I embarked on that led me to my perfect mate for life.
To say I am happily married would be an understatement. I am loved completely, and I love him fearlessly and effortlessly. The love is deep and everlasting, and there’s no other feeling like it in the world.
I am so profoundly happy right now that I must share it with you. I coach women every day about how to enjoy their journey on the way to finding sincere, grown-up, lasting loving relationships. I wrote this ebook because I am committed to helping as many women as possible find this kind of happiness. You deserve it. We deserve it.
Here are some success stories from people who have worked with me:
I’m 60 and have been married twice. I did something very nurturing for myself 6 months ago: I hired Bobbi to help me get past my fears, get into the dating waters, and find my last husband.
Well, I’m having dinner with another bachelor tonight. I have funny & interesting dating stories and some romance, but the best part has been this: What I have learned about myself and men could fill volumes. I learned that I don't have to change who I am to find Mr. Right, and that I already have the tools I need to be a successful dater. I did need to shift some beliefs and perceptions to even allow the right guy into the arena. And I needed to learn about how men think. (You'd think I’d know this at my age.)
I’m learning every day, but most importantly I’m having fun....that’s the real success!!
So if any of you are serious about finding the right man, or have a friend who is, learn from Bobbi. She is very smart, ALWAYS right (which drives me crazy), and has walked this path and found the love of her life… SHE REALLY KNOWS. Pegi B.
I wasn't actively dating because I wasn't sure at this stage in my life that I would really find a good match. I was a successful career woman with wonderful friends and family...wasn't that enough?
Bobbi had a wonderful story to tell about how she met her soul mate and helped me see that it could happen for me too. She convinced me to get on-line and start dating. She helped me with my profile and my photos, but mostly she helped me get up the nerve and the confidence to actually do it.
Without Bobbi's advice and guidance, I wouldn't have found the wonderful man that I have been dating for over 2 years. Bobbi's expertise on dating and her compassionate interest in helping you achieve your ultimate romantic goal is invaluable. I couldn't give a higher recommendation. -Hedy S.
I’d been dating a lot, but unsuccessfully, so I started working with Bobbi. Talking to Bobbi is like talking to a girlfriend who has her act together when it comes to men. She has the insight and empathy that can only come from someone who has been there when it comes to a less-than-successful dating life. Bobbi learned through the school of hard knocks how to understand and ultimately appreciate the opposite sex. She offers tips and techniques for getting dates and what to do once you're on one. But the icing on the cake is how she urges you to accept and celebrate who you are...warts and all. Stephanie G.
I was a happily single “mature” woman who had given up on dating. Bobbi helped me see my limiting opinions about men and dating – and led me to expand and explore the world of dating once more.
I never realized what a different species men are! I am enjoying the journey, and even it doesn't work out with the man I’m currently dating, I feel positive about the experience and will continue dating until I find that "special one.” Petti V.
what it would be like sharing thoughts, feelings, conversation, and your bed with the man of your dreams every day.
Looking in his eyes and having them look back at you with equal amounts of love, respect, and admiration.
Seeing and being the best you that you can be when you're with him.
Doing things with him that make you feel like a girl again.
Laughing, loving, growing old together.
Taking care of each other.
to start feeling those feelings for real. And I can help you get there.
For just $19.00 you can start on a path to experiencing the true happiness that perhaps has eluded you all these years.
Confessions of the World's Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40 will help you begin a new chapter in your life, IF you’re ready to turn the page.
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Here It Is! Your Guarantee of Overwhelming Satisfaction:
I personally guarantee that this ebook will start new things percolating inside of you so that you can enthusiastically embark on a new quest for the dream man, the one who has also been looking for you!
If you aren’t completely thrilled with this ebook within the first 30 days, for any reason, just let me know and I’ll cheerfully refund every penny. There’s no risk for you here, only the wondrous possibility of finding true love...and having a pretty good time along the way.
Fair enough?
Then let’s start to shape things in a new way, with things you already know but you’ve hidden, suppressed, or kept secret for a very long time.
Let’s create new ways of thinking, and new outcomes, so you can attract the man with whom you can joyfully share a life of deep fulfillment and intimacy.
With love and support. Be good to yourself,

Bobbi Palmer
Dating and Relationship Coach for Grown-up Women
PS – All it takes is some action in the right direction to start things fresh for you, a catalyst, an ember, a glimmer, to get things moving, and it can start today.
PPS – Your other option is to keep telling yourself you're better off single, keep going out on dates, keep hoping, and keep wondering if you will ever find true love at this stage in your life. You’ve already tried being single and missing out on what real love can bring to your life. Now try this!
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