The Simple Secret You’re Missing in Your Search for Love
December 30th, 2010 |
Dating over 40,Grow and Change to Find Love,How to Deal With Rejection |
bobbi |
4 comments
Lately I’ve come upon what I think is one of the biggest ironies of all: Good single men want women just like you…yet you’re not yourself when you’re around them.
Many fears stand in the way of you reaching your goal of finding love. If there is one fear I hope you can shed, it’s that of exposing your true and authentic self, particularly to men.
You really are who they want. And when you can just be yourself – foibles, insecurities, imperfections and all – and open yourself up to true connection…your life will explode with possibilities.
My wish for you in the coming year is that you find yourself, find hope and find him.
Cheers to you and to love!
Bev
December 31, 2010
Inspiring and what a perfect day to note it. Being vulnerable can be a litle scary — but is there really any other way? Thank you!
Petti
January 1, 2011
This TED talk was so inspiring. And so appropriate for those of us wanting a relationship with a man. Vulnerability is both scary and the key to better things.
Thanks for posting this!
Bobbi Palmer
January 6, 2011
Bev and Petti – thanks so much for your stopping by and for your comments. The “Big V” can be really scary. But like you said, Petti, it is what makes us attractive and what connects us with others; men or women.
AS
January 7, 2011
Agreed, you have to be your true self to attract a like-minded partner. Although, this can be scary and it’s a challenge to let the barriers down when you have had some bad experiences… But equally, it’s the way forward to having a happy & healthy relationship.